As someone who's retired now and passed the torch to new generation already I can tell it is tiresome when you get ghosted and it makes you feel like you're the clown which is true in that case.
Ghosting in the big 25 isn't cool
I kinda want to meet people who still ghost nowadays like what you think who you're? Ana de armas or Angelina Jolie? I'd be fine being ghosted by celebrities or A-tier people
Who have got net worth in billions and following in millions
But these people got none of that yet they ghost others like they're getting paid to ghost. It ain't the ego thing, they think ghosting is cool
Would make them look mysterious, smart and attractive person to that other one but it's quite the stupid. You make yourself fool by doing that.
I ain't ranting all that because I've been ghosted by my crush or something. I'd never give up just like that, you'll find me stalking in the street or doing some insane level stalking if only I had a crush on someone but there's no ana de armas out here in my neighborhood neither Angelina Jolie so my standards in woman have always been like that which is why I've never been ghosted by anyone.
it Makes Sense When
Only time when I ghosted someone was because of constantly being annoyed and being contacted only when the other person needs my help with something
It totally makes sense to ghost anyone who only contacts you at times of need like bro can't you say hi, wassup on a random day
So yea I've ghosted quite a lot of friends who were for a reason and totally had cut off connection, never looked back because I don't want to interact with anyone like that
Getting annoyed by some dm's to the point where you'll just cut out and ghost them
Happens to me all the time like these ladies be trying to DM me all the time (never happened) so just block her and be a free bird though there's always more fishes in the ocean so dream big
Ghost everyone just to marry her, only that girl deserves your loyalty and everything
So yea ghosting someone only when you're already in relationship makes totally sense.
There are people who would simp over you knowing you're in relationship so staying away from such people save you time and relationship as well.
Wrapping Up...
In the end we all have been ghosted at some point, I was when I sent a random text to ana de armas (never read my message)
But don't lose hope soldiers, you can't give up just like that. Sometimes we're just suppose to live in our own company so I'd even ghost my boss or colleague when I'd work just to have that peace.
We are all trading our time to get paid, working late and all so yea ghost for extra hours with yourself.
That's all for today, would love to know what's your thoughts on this in the comments.
fin.