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like we're all aging real quick with every year passing we're growing older and sometimes it makes the chances of getting married less and more less
Because of the bars and expectations, standards people have set for themselves to marry someone.
The social media has set the marriage expectations so high
Nowadays everyone I see on the internet talks about marrying a pretty girl who looks close to an actress cause they've only seen those kind of pretty couples on the internet
And it has fried their mind into thinking everyone is supposed to look like that, everyone is going to be over 6 foot, masculine like Mr Olympia
A poetic lover who'll write books and poetry for them, gonna get Gucci and stuff everyday.
it's all bullshit
These are the kind of perfect signs for a toxic person like if they find any of this attractive they're supposedly going to die alone
And never gonna find love of their life cause where in the hell are such people who are close to a model, above 6ft, looking like cbum and all that richness.
this is why people are single and above 30 years old
I can tell there's a lot of people unmarried and above 30 because of either they never tried or thought about it and they never had the realistic expectations about thr partner.
You're supposed to marry someone who you understand, feel complete with, share your life together in good or bad times
It's never the looks or the money that should matter, it's the journey that matters and it becomes a lot better when the partner is someone who's willing to live through everything with you.
They say marry Young
It's good to marry when you're in your 20s cause it saves you from a lot of sins, you don't stress out yourself about "am I going to die alone if I don't make it"
You'll be at peace that you've someone beside you while you're building your life in 20s.
Growing up together sharing that 20s with someone you love is nowadays rare.
People are depressed out there cause they don't know who they're going to marry and if they ever will
You'll cut that part out only when you're married in your 20s and are going to focus just on your partner and your life.
Wrapping Up...
It becomes questionable to marry when you're old above 30s like close to 40 makes the other people question why that person haven't married until now
There must be a flaw or something that's keeping someone unmarried that long.
So yea in my opinion it is perfect to marry when you're in your 20s rather than in 30s or so on. Would love to know what's your thoughts about it in the comments.
fin.