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When I go out and see those people walk around the city I see reasons why they're like that.
I know that some of those are avoidant because of the part experience, some are confident because of the people they're walking with.
We all should ask ourselves what are those things that gives us confidence? What makes you unconfident when you're in public places or in gathering.
The Way of Getting Confident
I'd say the confidence to me means speaking out loud in capital letters in the public with no obligation and fear.
Imagine saying something to slow that other person barely hears? That shows how you don't have confidence
Being able to talk and match people tones in the public is what confidence is. when you walk around the city, you are walking as if no one is looking at you, you know the destination are heading towards it, not a single thought of what other people are thinking about you because no one literally thinks about you
It's just the fear in your own mind that makes you weak in places and situations.
Getting Wealthy is the way
I've been poor far too long to know that the times when I had no confidence was because I had no money and I was put into those situations where money could've easily made me confident.
See a wealthy kid and a kid of someone poor make them sit on the same table and you'll see where the confidence is.
It isn't only that you've to be wealthy to get confident but when you're working and are making money like you know that you're making money
Will put more confidence in you and that's how simple things are.
The minute you are broke, loose the job and aren't putting any work you'll be depressed person who have no confidence in the room.
it's also the people
When you're walking with those people who aren't going to judge you, their company is what gonna bring more confidence.
But we both knows we always meet those people who'll judge you and even make fun of your situation
So better not let anyone do that and work on yourself to avoid that kind of scenario.
You should be with people who tell you to work on yourself, who encourages you to do better and that kind of company will keep you going and is far better than the toxic one's.
In the end the moment you start putting efforts in yourself and set boundaries for people and your priorities straight you'll get instant confidence compared to anyone who's not working and is just bed rooting. I believe you do agree with it and would love to know what's your thoughts on it in the comments.
that's all folks.