It is quite complicated thing since your parenting shapes entire life of that child, it can build or ruin confidence of kids if you're doing it right or the wrong way
We all have been raised by parents and can tell when it was extreme or good, what we need to keep for our child's and what we won't do as we have learnt from our parents
Involvement of Parents in Child Life: The Good or Bad Side!
Almost every caring parents look after their child even when they're adult and responsible for their own actions still they'll show interest in kids activities like they've been doing since childhood
even now my mom takes interest in everything that goes on in my life, she makes my decision and tell me what is right or wrong to do and I'm like 22 years old
For others it might seems like oh still letting parents get involved in their life
But to me I know it's her love and she wants best for me, at the end of the day it's me who'll decide if I'm going to do that or will make that choice in my life but I want her words and opinions before I do and it'll stay like this no matter how old I grow.
But some kids get pissed
I've also seen some people who are like adult and they feel embarrassed or really pissed if their parents show interest or Give some opinion about something they do
Like if your father says you shouldn't be doing something instead of reflecting on the choice you've made some people will scold their parents and act like kids
Thinking that's their masculinity or they're grown up but deep down it's true that they're kid cause of the way they react over simple thing.
Being Good Parents isn't that Hard
All we need to do is find the balance between being overly protective over kids and let them live the way they want
I've seen parents trying to impose on their children to choose this career instead of what they want
Forcing to marry that person instead of love of your life and such thing just creates more space between the relationship of parents and children
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That's why it's better to find a balance, let your kids make wrong choices sometimes; Good to warn them once but don't push too hard
Some of us are really stubborn and we learn by making the wrong choices though our parents have lived a life so they've experience and they want us to do better than them that's why I listen carefully while some think it's childish at such age.
Wrapping Up...
In the end just be nice to your parents and I believe parent should treat their children better and trust them over things they want to pursue in life
I'd love to know what's your thoughts are about it and the way you think parenting should be done in this era. Do share your opinions in the comments.
fin.