Yet every human has different responsibilities and their own different struggles and phases of life.
You can't say someone struggle isn't that much like can't judge anyone based on their struggles and what they're dealing with
We should be more humble and polite to people but there's this stigma that men don't cry and I'll be honest challenges and hardship are supposed to break you sometimes in tears and that part never lasts forever.
The Struggles of Men in Modern Society
I myself is living a life full of struggles and challenges because I'm the eldest son in the family and growing up without father I had to make it work for myself and family
Found the job early, continued study and been doing it right but without crying and all because I know that's my responsibility and I'm not supposed to run from it but to embrace it.
There's plenty of jobless men who are supposed to feed their family by the dawn so they do labour and hardwork to earn that money that'll be gone after a meal or two.
While some of these men are out running business from young age I've seen boys on street selling stuff while they should be studying
Same in my case I had to drop my studies to work on the full time job and I kind of wish I had enough of the resources to continue studies and get graduate but that's just another struggle.
Running out of time
Society has made us think like we're in some sort of race where we are supposed to finish before anyone else and that we are running out of time
While in 20s you're dealing with problems that once were dealt by people in their 30s or 40s.
It has become so common amongst men to think that they're running out of time and if they won't be financially strong by the time they're 25 they won't be making any progress in life
Won't be getting married and all is such a common thing people nowadays think about.
But I guess there's plenty of time for us to figure out what you want and what is going to be best for you in this life, with time we will get what we want.
Real life liquidations are happening
I've seen enough of the thing that could easily tear anyone up and there's many cases of getting liquidated not in the market but in real life
Every situation that puts you in position where you have to make that tough decision
You're always on the edge and alone that you want to end it all but I know that's not the way, we are suppose to overcome any challenges that come our way.
Don't let anyone tell you that your challenges and struggles aren't real, people don't know until they've been through it so find your own people and you'll realise it's not that deep, you can cry a bit and find solution of those problems later.
Everything will start to make sense someday and things will get better hopefully so let's stay optimistic and I'm sure you agree with it, would love to know what's your thoughts on it in the comments.
fin.