Every relationship is very important and valuable for us as a human and each day we are making many relationships with new new people and that process will continue till our death. But sometimes some relationships became toxic with time. Most of the time toxic relationships create an impact mentally and sometimes physically.
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We all have several toxic relationships in our life and it's very natural because we all don't think in the same way and it created differences between us and sometimes it can lead to a toxic relationship. It's not necessary to be a couple for facing a toxic relationship. It can happen between friends and even with family members. So today I am sharing my experience of a toxic relationship. and In my case, the person is my friend.
I was admitted to the university at the end of 2017 and there I met with many classmates and among all of them I found 2 who almost think like me and we 3 became friends within a short time. We used to make tours and adventures together and our times were going well because the understanding was very well between us. Other classmates used to say us 3 idiots ( movie name ) in our class.
For 2 years everything was fine but I realized that one of us name Anik ( fake name ) was such kind of person who don't love to protest for his rights. I first noticed it when we both got the wrong size T-shirt before a departmental tour and we paid for it. I immediately protested saying that I won't take the T-shirt because it was not my size or give my money back. The class representative tried hard to give me the wrong size T-shirt but failed. That time class representative said to me that the same thing happened with Anik and he didn't say a single word and it's me who is making trouble there. ( I was unaware that my friend also received the wrong size t-shirt ). That time I felt angry because he saw that I was protesting alone there and he didn't support me when the same thing also happened to him. I asked him but his reply wasn't satisfying.
Later 2 friends understood that he was trying to make a good relationship with the Class representative and it was the reason behind such kind of act.
Later we noticed it also that he feel jealous to see we 2 ( among 3) earning more by doing tuition. Besides our results were a little bit better than him means I was the first, my another friend was the second, and Anik was the third one in our class. I would not feel jealous if I would be the third one also.
Generally, I don't ask anything to anyone in the exam but in the 3rd-year exam, I asked Anik a question because I had little doubt. He behaved with me like a stranger and he didn't answer what I asked. My another friend said about that behavior several times earlier. But the reaction of Anik was rude and it was like he humiliated me.
He used to do several kinds of courses for learning different languages but he hide them from us for more than one year. I felt a little bit hurt hearing it from others because I asked him earlier if he doing such kind of course and he denied it.
Since that time the difference between us has increased and sometimes his action is like he is our enemy and it really hurts. His behavior was like he was a primary-level student.
So now 2 best friends understood the true nature of the third friend but still, now we consider him a friend instead the relationship become toxic. You may prefer to stay far from such kind of relationship but we 2 best friends think It's almost the end of our varsity life and we don't want to finish our university life with harsh feelings toward anyone. We want to finish it with a good feeling and I believe Anik will realize his mistakes later when he will be departed from us after university life and remember us someday because I believe he will be more mature in that time.
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