I need another brother for financial stability and security

The best gift parents can give us siblings. It's because even if parents can take care of us very well, At some point it's hard to give us the time which we want. Patents can't concentrate on us 24/7 because various kinds of household work restrict them and it's very natural. We feel lonely and various kinds of negative thoughts may appear in our mind. If we have siblings we can play and talk to them and stay out of various kinds of negative thoughts.

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In my family, there are 5 members. We are 3 siblings and parents and it's a happy family. We are two brothers and one sister. I am the eldest one and my brother is the little one and he is 11 years younger than me. And my sister is 5 years younger than me. I used to feel lucky because I have one sister and one brother. Isn't it?

As an elder brother responsibility automatically comes to me and it is natural. Sometimes I felt that it would be better if I was a junior one in my family because a junior one can get more opportunities to lead a free and carefree life than the elder one. But I realized that someone needs to take responsibility. So why not me? So even if I am the elder brother I don't feel regret for it.

One of the most important responsibilities is the responsibility of the finances of the family. As the eldest son, it's my responsibility to take over the responsibility of the finances of my family from my father. My father is getting older and I think it's the time for my father to rest and enjoy life. My financial condition is moderately ok because my father saved a good amount of money in the bank and it is giving us some money each month as an interest of savings. And I am also earning a little by doing tuition and supporting my family.

My father returned from abroad 2 years ago. So in the last two years, my family mostly depended on bank interest and my little earnings. Everything was going very well but because of inflation at the current time, we need to face difficulties for leading life. It's true that the solution is not too bad for us but it's not too good either. Somehow we are balancing the situation and I feel worried thinking about the future of my family and it's reasonable for me as the eldest son of my family.

I am always trying my best to come out of the situation by providing all the facilities to my family members. Sometimes I feel what will happen to my family if something happens to me. My brother is not mature enough to take responsibility for my family. It gives me a feeling like It would be better if I had another sibling almost the same age or a little younger than me. I know that kind of thinking is not going to change anything but I can't stop thinking about it. It's because somehow balance will create and it's the law of nature. So I wish I had another brother nearly to my age although I am happy with my current family members 🙂. It would made our life better and more secure 🙂. And I would get someone to discuss about many thing with him.