Gender discrimination is a hot topic at any time, and most of the time it says that women are getting bullied and they are not receiving many privileges they are supposed to receive. This is a complaint of many women, and in many cases, it's also true. I heard many women saying that he would be better if they were male. I think it's a totally ridiculous thought. Being male seems so easy for them, and I think they got the wrong idea because a male person doesn't share his pain with others and doesn't reflect on his weaknesses for many reasons. There is a saying that "Big boys don't cry."
Technically, it's not true. They are also human, and it's normal to have emotions, and having emotions means feeling happy when something good happens and feeling sorrow when they feel pain or heartbroken. In most cases, it has been seen that boys naturally hide their pain. Some people say that boys are made of iron hearts, but actually, it's not the case. In this digital world, the thoughts of people started to change, and many people already come out of the misconception. Women are not so weak; they pretend to be. And men are not so strong; they pretend also. But it is sure compared to women, men are better when it comes to tolerance, power, and hiding.
In my opinion, men are also vulnerable to different kinds of situations. Sometimes I feel it funny when I hear that women are being controlled by society all the time, but for men, I think it's not different either. Before marriage, they are the puppets of their parents, especially their mothers, and after marriage, they become the puppets of their wives. It's not the scenario in every case, but it is the situation of most of the family. Sometimes I feel a male person needs to go through a lot of mental stress all the time unless they take bold steps to secure their rights. Otherwise, they will become sandwiched between the mother's and wife's pressure. I don't want to say it negatively, but I think it's not wrong either to say it.
The world demands a lot of a man, and people's expectations become a burden for them. Additionally, there are various kinds of reasons they can be heartbroken, also. It says that crying can help a person to get some relief, but the world also demands that boys not to cry. Don't you think it is too insane? Who made such a ridiculous statement? I don't agree with it. At least for boys, crying is not a solution, and it's better not to cry, but if it can give some relief, then I think it's okay.
Does it mean crying is also revealing the weakness? I guess so. A person cries when he can't tolerate a situation, and it naturally means weakness. I know that humans are not perfect and having weaknesses is also ok, but I don't think that it is a wise idea to reveal the weakness in front of anyone. Because nobody can be trusted fully, and the person who can understand the weakness may use it against the person in the future. For another reason, I don't think it's ok to cry in front of family members, except parents. It's because men are supposed to be the role models and need to be strong. If they cry, it may impact the morale of the family. So in my opinion, it is quite ok to cry by hiding if it can give anyone relief, but nobody should know about the situation. A man needs to be strong. At least he should pretend to do so for the sake of others.
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