Humans are social beings and without the help of others, it is impossible to lead life. So at some point in our life, we received help from others but some people among them played a great role and because of their contribution, we are able to reach our current position. In my case, I am not a person who was naturally influenced by others from my childhood times but it doesn't mean I was never influenced. So today I am here talking about them. There are two characters who influenced me more than others in my life.
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The first person who influenced me more in my life is my father and I think father is the best influencer for those who have a good relationship with their father. I am not going to say that he was one of the most caring types or something bla bla bla. In most cases, I have seen most male people are afraid of their father and try to hide from their father and females are close to their father (according to my observation). I don't know the exact reason but I noticed it many times. I can feel an invisible wall between son and father till a certain age. Maybe it's because the father stays outside of the home most of the time and doesn't get enough time to spend with his son or the father used to play a strict role which can be a possible reason.
In my case, I used to get 4 to 6 months after every 2 years to spend time with my father because my father was abroad. I must say that I was very lucky because my father did not belong to a strict type of father. He was very friendly to me from childhood. He used to play with me and he was like a child 😅. So from this perspective, he was my friend from my childhood. My mother used to say that he (my father) didn't grow up and act like a child. I still can remember that he used to play catching each other, hide and seek, ludo, cricket, football almost all kinds of games with me. None of my uncles was like my father means so childish like my father. Others (including my mother) used to say "You (my father) will spoil this child(me)". But my father never cared about it😅. I understand how friendly my father was with me when I saw him doing the same things with my little brother. I could feel each moment when my father enjoyed time with my little brother because it was like a replay of my own childhood.
When I started to grow up many things I started to understand. He is one of the most honest people I have seen in my life. He got opportunities to earn more by dishonest ways which people used to do to make more money but he chose honesty. He is a cool type of person and everyone trusts my father very well. I am really inspired by his character. Whatever I have in my character most of them I received from him or learned from him.
Let's talk about support. In the case of education, he always gives me the best support. He was not much educated but he did his best to make me educated when some people told him not to waste money on education. He used to say "I am uneducated but it's not necessary my son needs to be uneducated also. He will do better in the field of education". At that time I wasn't able to understand the true meaning of those words but now I can understand and I know he was right because my current position is proving it.
Moreover, he is the type of person who tries to understand the situation and take action based on the situation. I also learned it from him and it's really made my life easier. His lifestyle shows me that life is beautiful if we start to think positively. My concept of life is very clear to me because of it.
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The another character is one of my private tutors. Teachers are always very friendly with me and I always try to remain close to teachers. And the best teacher in my life is Pronoy sir who was my private home tutor from IX class to the XII class. Obviously, he was very friendly but strict when it was about study. The psychological knowledge of Pronoy Sir was just impressive. He was able to understand my feelings, emotions, and the reason behind taking an action of mine. He used to see me as his little brother. I could feel the special connection. He used to share various kinds of knowledge It doesn't matter whether it's included in the textbook or not. After that time in case of taking decisions, my teacher help me very much, especially when it was the time of critical situation. Do you know I started to reach books because my teacher suggested it to me at the beginning and the interest to know more about psychology came from him? I think finding a teacher like my elder brother isn't so common. In the case of my career, I know that he made a huge contribution. Still, now, I am connected to him and talk to him.
I am really blessed because I found the best father and best teacher in my life. In my current position, both of them made huge contributions. I think my situation could be more hours if any of them were absent in my life.
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