Everyone has to live with the ability to control desires, actions and feelings for a proper journey through existence. With the ability to control these feelings shows 'self discipline.' Different situations brings about or foster a stronger control of weakness.
While growing up, it is certain that some stuffs will be revealed to you, some of which are hidden. These things will be revealed to you without being told by anyone, what happens now is how you react to what you just experienced. The way you react to those things and situations, if it is in the right way then it's self discipline.
How do you react to situations?
The way you react to situations either by words of actions shows how disciplined you are. Humans can be so temping, they can push you to do what you didn't intend doing, but with self discipline one can form a resistance against these wiles.
Overlooking an attitude I developed. It is really troubling and time consuming to engage in situations that does not worth your time, sometimes making issues that are not supposed to be serious become serious. Living this life makes me a bit reserved and with this reducing that rate at which someone should be aware of my lifestyle.
In different occasions I have been appointed to carry out a particular task, which entitles my interaction with several individuals. Even when it has to do with dealing with my seniors who are answerable to me based on the task, I try as much as possible not to offend anyone, no matter how the case may be. The mode at which I react is my way of self discipline, no matter who is at fault no insult is attached. Even when angry, I smile and leave the scene.
It came to a day where one who was submissive had to pour insults based on an issue he felt he was right. This shows no respect, the say respect is reciprocal, I played my part but he didn't reciprocate. To save the moment they was no reaction from me, but my happiness was he later realized that he was wrong and felt sorry about what he did, coupled with how I overlooked everything that moment.
The morals of this is that, we should be mindful of what we say when angry, even our actions. One thing to note is, words are always hard to repair, sometimes I see hurting words as wounds that can't be healed, no matter how religious you are.
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