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I'm Awais Ali and I welcome to all of you in my blog. I wish Blessed and Happy New Year to HL Family.
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In the start of the year, the majority of us are in a hurry to make resolutions. We develop new routines, new habits, perhaps a new work or study routine. But Hive Learners Weekly Featured Contents topic : NEW YEAR, NEW PEOPLE for Week 198, Episode 02 push me to think about making a different resolution this year.
It took me sometime to finalize that if really I want to cut off some people from my life.....
( Don't mind if you found the list long 🤠😜).
The people around you influence your ideas and beliefs, your self-esteem, your outlook and even your life. When I am surrounded by some toxic people I realized life is not so heavy. It is the people surrounding us that make it heavier.
If you're struggling with your studies, they don't encourage you. They brag about their own achievements. If you are unmarried and struggling to fine perfect wedding purposal, they keep adding salt to your wound. They keep reminding you of it again and again, adding salt to the wound with careless comments and comparisons.
If you're ready to read, laugh, or listen ❤️
Lets go ahead let me share more!
I’m facing hair fall, and the random aunties’ favorite line is,
Why are you going bald in your twenties?
as if I ordered it myself.
I'm a peaceful soul. I'm not used to of this kind of behavior that drain my energy.
🚫 It’s Okay to Step Away
Not all the people remains with you forever. Some people come only for a chapter, not the whole book.
I decided to step away from the people :
- Just call when they require something
- Laugh at my dreams
- Drain my energy
- Disrespect my boundaries
All I want is peace in my life.
It would be challenging for me to step away from one of my toxic friend. He is close to me but I won't allow someone to disrespect my boundaries. Laughing at my dreams means underestimating my capabilities and I am not gonna put up.
It is better to be alone with self-respect than to stay with someone who can not see your worth.
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I'm an introvert person but I warmly connect with the like minded people. I would try to meet and spend mu time with people who:
- Encourage me
- Talk about ideas, not just about other people
- Celebrate my achievements
- Correct me kindly when I am wrong
- Make me feel calm and comfortable.
These people may not be perfect, but they are good for my heart and mind.
Happy New Year Everyone ❣️
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