I recall that in 2019 when I was getting ready for my wedding, I had already started to gain ground where I was staying in the catering and confectioneries industries. Now that I'm about to get married, I was excited. Who wouldn't be, it was a happy thought, with so much love and, of course, marrying that special person.
But on the other side, I was also upset since I had to leave that city and move to another, despite my best attempts to raise awareness of what I was doing, attract clients, and make other efforts. I wasn't as excited because I was moving to a place with more competition.
Then, my girlfriend, who is also my associate, will tell me, "BAE don't worry, everything will work out for the best," and she'll be so encouraging, just so I won't have to worry about how to start or where to start from so much. I'll say stuff like, "You know Lagos is a big city, full of so many ups and downs," etc. But all she'll say is that there's more motivation for me to stop worrying or bothering myself and that, as we've already spoken because it's a big city, there will also be new prospects with new clients.
On certain days, my fiance and I will even dispute over the relocation situation in general, including how it would impact me. But what can he do to help me other than beg me? Only sweet words will be said in the conversation after that. I left everything in God's hands and asked him to take charge because, deep down, I'm not satisfied.
It dawned on me that being married and being happy is preferable to having all the customers, accomplishments, and everything else and still being single after realizing that I couldn't do it alone.
That's when I realized it was time to call it to quit.
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