Marriage is the coming together of a man and a woman leaving their different homes to form one body as a family and is not what we just jump into without being mature or without knowing what is in marriage, marriage has many hidden agenda in which the married people will not tell you but rather it is for the matured minds and never a childs Play.
While most families go into disaster and their marriages break is due to lack of understanding which is as a result of not having a mature mind.
Meanwhile there are some marriage taboos, that needs to be abolished in the entire world and this are people traditions , these traditions started from the old maybe by that time they people then see it as been very good and more of beneficial to them without knowing the bad side of it, without knowing the effect it could cause.
Now as time goes on ,the world keep revolving and science keep bringing change that will bring the entire world to a beneficial change that will bring more of good to us.
Example of these practice is early marriage, there are some traditions that accept this where a girl will be married between the age of 6 and 8 ,this is really bad it is child abuse, such traditions should be abolished in any community practicing it.
According to science and midwifery (obstetrics and gynecology nursing) it is expected that a woman is upto 25 years before anything child bearing so that by that time the hip (pelvic bone has mature enough to go through labor process) but in early marriage this child (the girl child) is put to risk of pelvic floor muscles and bone damage, even some of them die on the process of delivery, some even reach the extent of having degree tears in their reproductive organs ,Such as rectovaginal fistula causing incontinence to the patient been affected.
In terms of normal marriage personally I will say that once you are above 25 years old you can marry for the both genders (male and female) but as a guy is advisable you have something doing because marrying at a young age or even at any age without having anything in hand is a red flag because as a family and as a married man you will have many responsibilities and challenges to face and the question now is how are you going to handle them and pay off your bills .
Meanwhile marriage if not done by maturity of age (how old you are ) but it is a thing of how mature you are in mind and so many other things likes handling of responsibilities and things that concerns family matters, but when you don't have this qualities it can't really work . When there is understanding and love in a marriage there will be respect and things will fall in place not even minding if the woman is older than the man.
MARRIAGE IS FOR TWO MATURE MINDS.
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