Surrogacy which simple means carrying pregnancy for someone for a period of time . This should be a thing of choice and never a must it depends on the individual couples and the person they want to do such business with.
Many individuals believe that is an abomination , together with some religious beliefs yeah it can be an abomination to you according to your own tradition while to others is a normal thing . You know what we see as bad and wrong is according to individual tradition and what we believe also.
Meanwhile some women have issues that have led them into not being able to carry a baby in their own womb , this can be as a result of medical conditions that warrant the woman not being pregnant or a situation where the womb is totally damaged. We have so many things that can cause it one major problem that can cause this is what is called cervical mayoma, a type of fibroid that covers the cervix and it causes the total removal of the cervix leading to making the woman unable to carry pregnancy to term . So their are people who have uterine problems that can lead to surrogacy so it is also a type of family planning that help the individual have her own baby.
Meanwhile there are also people who on their own just decide to go for surrogacy is a thing of choice to me it does not call for condemnation, we all have our various rights to do whatever works for us and i believe it is also the right of the couple to make their choice in the family planning they want to go for . Personally for surrogacy i don't think i can do that but anyone that chooses to do say is his or her business i don't think it should be any ones business, surrogacy is never bad but it requires mature and mutual understanding.
In surrogacy the biological mother have to interfair in the family/ child because is just a deal ones she is done with the 9 months deal she should stay away from the both families because her business with them suppose to and ends immediately the baby is delivered and with that she have to distant herself from the families. Meanwhile if there should be a way of hiding the biological mother from the couples during the deal so that they will not know each other it will be better so that after the delivery non of them will know each other to avoid future problems from both parties. Surrogacy have caused a lot of issues in the society today due to the individuals knowing each other and this is my reason why i said they both parties should be hidden from each other so as to avoid this challenges of someone waking up tomorrow and coming to claim that she is a biological mother to someone after the couples have trained the child to a certain reasonable age.
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