Greetings to you all Beautiful Family, it's yet another beautiful week and it's coming with awesome topics for our very contest
I'll be talking about
MY GROWTH INDIVIDUALLY
Over the years and even yet to come...
Sometimes it surprises me of the things I see happening around me. Some are delightful and others are nothing to write much about, but one thing I've come to realize is that I'm a normal human being and those things are bound to happen
IF I'M COMPARING BETWEEN AGES ABOUT 5-10YEARS NOW It's really not what I have envisioned but as life kept unfolding I began to see things from a different perspective. When I was very young I had the BELIEVE that I cannot DIE, how funny... But as I started evolving as an adult I began to see things far more than I could ever imagine
I sat down to think my view of Life right now and I'm like I really have changed allot, and on a normal day I wouldn't be thinking like this (PAST LIFE THOUGHT)
When I first got the first major changes of life was when I knew who friends really was, when I saw what betrayal really was. I told myself that helping people just easily will no longer be my thing,
But guess what I COULDN'T KEEP TO MY PROMISE I had to start what I call A SORTING PROCESS
THIS STEP ACTUALLY HELPED IN MY GROWTH
it's actually getting to know who's there and who's not there for me so I'll be able to know my true friends or who will actually go out of their will to support when I'm down
SORTING PLAN/METHOD: I can fake having a serious problem to know who's really going to do no matter what to help out...
Most times it works and I actually know who has me and who I can have as well... No joke it works majority of times, but this should not be done as if you are becoming a parasite to people around you because in turn others will come around seeking for some form of assist and you are sure obligated to give
When I came in contact with The very NGO I'm running now, they are so deep in personal development program. So digesting books was another way of me growing over some things, if not for laziness I do read at least two books every month. THE BOOK THE GUY ON THE PEXEL IMAGE ABOVE IS READING IS CALLED (HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE by Carnegie ) GET IT AND THANK ME LATER Don't be scared to over develop and if those around you refuse to grow mentally, leave them on that train 🚆 and board another
ONLINE MENTORSHIP ON ANY AREA OF MY WEAKENESS ALSO ADDED This cannot be over emphasized anymore that whatever knowledge or help you seek, The answers are lying down on the street of the internet so I became fierce with this part too just to overcome some Lifeview Barrier
I DECIDED TO ASSUME RESPONSIBILITY No matter what it is, no matter how tough it gets I'm going to make it happen. I decided to stand for myself because no one is entitled to help me since I wasn't born an handicap, though I face tough time in responsibility handling but I just have to do it. And it has helped me grown out of the dependence mentality
ONBOARD HIVE... My Growth and plan I'm still crawling as a newbie around the blog, but I can say I'm an enlightened Newbie and I'm yet to explore more opportunities. I never bargained for the way it's going but I just have to do it... I'm mentoring someone and I'm still under a mentorship 😁😁
Growing on Hive I won't say it's difficult because we have allot of awesome people who are creating contents to really help us, but aside the knowledge I get here I DO MY PERSONAL RESEARCH
And it helps me evolve. I'll advice you that... And aside from the fact that I'm stubborn a little A LITTLE OO😁 I listen to my mentors Advise and also apply what I learn
All these are but a few steps that has helped me and if applied I'm certain it will help you too
So let's call it a halt here and get your reviews...
- MOST PEOPLE ARE SCARED OF GROWTH AND CHANGES, ARE YOU?
- MENTORING SOMEONE TO GROW IS NOT EASY, CAN YOU BE PATIENT ENOUGH OR YOU GET FED UP EASILY?
- WHAT AREA ARE YOU LAGGING BEHIND THAT NEEDS A MENTOR?
Thanks for coming around
Till we meet at the street of Hive please do well to stay safe
