We are living in a society where a lot of people are living and everyone has it's own way of thinking. Everyone has it's own mindset and judge other people according to their mindset. It doesn't mean if a person say us right then for other people maybe we're wrong. Because not every person think in the same way.
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They'll judge you!!!!
In our society, it's the most common thing that we judge others, judgment is the main factor which bring a lot of changes in our life. Sometimes we want to change according to others while for some we just ignore what's they're talking about.
I think in this era, we're trying to happy other people and want to satisfy others just like we are living for them not for us. We've a fear in our mind what other people say??? And this fear never let us enjoy our life according to our own will's.
I'm not so old that I can conclude, but from my life experience I come to a point that we can't satisfy others in our life, although we trying to happy other but people of this society can't be happy. Believe me if we're going to any get-together there's are people who spread rumors about other people.
It makes me rebel!!!!
Personally, I'm tired from being judged by others, I'm tired from doing things which makes other people happy, I'm tired from this situation. Now i make a rebel about it and who is responsible for it?? Obviously I'll blame society or people who force me to make rebellion.
My nature wasn't like that but now i don't care about people, i don't care about society because I can't keep their mouth shut neither I can't close my ears so it's the better way to move on is let ignore such kind of people in our life. I do what I want to do not that people love to do as they're not there for your appreciation.
If I don't start a job after graduation, people start to do gossips that i just took my degree and keep it aside, okay I start a job then people start to do gossips that it's good to be married rather then waste your time on job, okay I married now people start to criticize that you should carry your job after marriage too, okay I start my job again then people start to criticize that how you can manage both home and job..... Aughhh I'm tired from it.....😖😖
I choose my comfort zone over everything in which I feel comfortable I'll do it in anyway. It doesn't mean I never tried to make happy others but i did a lot of things in past for others but for now it's my life and only I know how to live it happily. I'm not here to impress others.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest #hl-exclusive for the topic #hl-w174e1.