Why I Believe Love Should Be Enough for Marriage

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Welcome to another interesting topic on my blog.

Today, I will be discussing whether love is enough to get married.

Nowadays, with all the technology, globalization, and the diverse and fast-paced times we live in, people, perhaps due to everything they have gone through with the pandemic, cultural evolution, and globalization itself, have come to see marriage as an institution that represents more of a business.

And in reality, it is: it is an agreement between two people who come together to live or have a better life.

And this agreement, although not explicitly written, has been carried out through traditions and cultural matters in recent years, leading to prenuptial agreements.

So, lately, legal agreements are signed that establish that if, in the future, the relationship breaks down and a divorce occurs, each person gets what was agreed upon in this prenuptial agreement, which, to me, seems very, very painful and very wrong.

Because in a relationship, love must exist; that is, people must get to know each other, love each other, and treat each other because they feel something for one another, and there should not be that interest or need to be with the other person solely because of their social status or money.

I understand that today there are many women and men who would be willing to marry solely for that reason.

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I have seen cases of people in other countries, for example, women in Russia, Iceland, and other places, who are willing to marry anyone who can take them out of their country.

And in those cases, it is different: they marry because they need to flee from a regime or a situation that truly limits their lives. And even in those cases, I do not think that is the solution.

I always believe that everything in life has a solution, and you just have to look for it.

I do not think this is a necessary addition to the marriage ritual. I believe that adding these prenuptial agreements damages the social and cultural aspect of any marriage.

I repeat: love should be enough. I think a couple that is forced to sign a prenuptial agreement, whether because their family imposes it or because cultural laws impose it, will not end well.

I honestly believe I would not do it at this point in my life.

I think I would not do it, truly, I would not.

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And I am at a point in my life where I am financially broke, and maybe I should consider that if a woman with a lot of money offers me the opportunity to solve my financial situation, I would marry her. I think I would not do it.

It would be a solution to all my health problems and all the issues I have, but how would my feelings, my soul, my emotions be? I would still feel empty, and that is one thing.

And also, I would not do it at this moment because it is something I value greatly: my solitude.

And to exchange my solitude for companionship, the companionship has to be much better and offer me much more than what solitude offers me.

And so far, since that has not happened, I think it will remain this way for a long time.

But that is part of another topic.

And well, I want to say that, for me, regarding the topic we are discussing today, love should be enough to get married, to establish a relationship with anyone.