I observe a lot of things and i found out that the more you advance in life, then responsibilities is waiting for you one way or the other even if you think you are not up to the task, it will surely come out through a means, We never had to think like this when we were in our tender age and also in the primary school where all our needs are met just by mentionung them and even go to the extent of crying just to make our needs accepted but we never knew life is turning and we are also going to get there but since it is a gradual process, you will just notice the time has come and those period is already getting to you.
I am writing this just because i already knew how these might or can when i was still in the tender age because i was close to my father and i have been priviledge to know a lot of things in life through him, what life can actually be like and what it has in stake for lot of people.
While i was still in my tertiary institution studying engineering i was always having the thought that i am a man and i should not fully depend on my parent for my urgent needs and this actually helped me a lot and i was able to find myself doings things that can actually fetch me income, sorting bills like school fees, house rents and some other financial issues and this has made me zero my mind that life is not just about asking parent for your need because it will actually get to a stage when they will also call you for some urgent needs.
Friends who we are together could not relate because they got the opportunity of their parent always sending them funds weekly and that was not able to allow them have the view which i have but i can't blame them but recently after graduation from the tertiary institution, some of them started seeing life the way i was seeing it then and what was that?
Some parent made it known to them that they already graduated and finished school so the responsibilities is not on them again because as agraduate you should be able to cater for yourself, Now they couldn't figure it out, some took it as hate from their parent while some took it as a challenge for them to be a better person. Back to me and what i was saying that life is turning and the fact that when you were young you could task your parent just to get your needs is what actually happened to me of recent.
I was on my laptop and i just saw the call from my mum who is in need of some urgent funds to sort somethings which i can't say no to and even out of the planned funds which i had, i dont have any choice than to send it to her and these made me remember how i also used to do then and i remember how my father also use tp tell me so i was not much suprised like that because that is how life can be