It's not possible for every human not to get angry but it is possible and different with each person how to tend to control that anger and become happy again or stay angry. I don't know if we're many but I'm one of those few who find it hard to stay angry at people around me.
The question asked to share that one person (or people if more than one) that I can't stay angry at... The thing is, I don't know how to stay angry even with a stranger.
They say, only your loved ones are more able to hurt you and you have to pardon them regardless. Strangers may hurt you but it's never the same when it is done by a loved one. In my case, strangers hardly get me pissed off. It's always my family and friends who get me angry but staying angry with them never works out well for me.
Since there are many people I can't stay angry with... I'll share a few stories of how I can't stay angry with my loved ones.
I remember when I was still very young and living with my aunt who has a son almost same age as my younger sister. We were all living together happily but there was always a time when this cousin of mine pisses me off so badly, I remember we fought once as a result of it (I'm not a fighter though) but the next minute, we were seen eating together and chatting like it never happened.
Most of the time, I forget that I'm angry with someone...
My siblings and I would have our quarrel moment one minute and the next minute, we're singing happily together like we never quarrel as a family. Oh how I hate to stay angry at my dad and my mum, I just have to take in whatever they do because I believe they do it for my good sake... Although not all.
I once tried staying angry with my cousin and I succeeded for an hour because I was so determined to change his ways of being too mischievous, I can remember the number of times I was tempted to talk to him but held myself back. Well, he did his usuals and got me laughing so hard that we forgave each other.
Staying angry with a loved one might hurt your loved one but I tell you, it hurts you more because you're the one who's angry... Anger isn't a good feeling at all and that is why I always try to stay happy no matter what (glad I have so many ways to do that now).
Instead of staying angry at someone, why not talk it out, laugh over it and be free? Anger takes one nowhere except the quick anger moment to correct and get rid of a mistake. Learn to be happy again even when you got annoyed by someone (it happened because you love that person) you've got to forgive and move on.
It's easier said than done, one might say... But I'll tell you, it's worth giving it a try for one's peace of mind.
