A Contract is a Contract, regardless of what is attached to it or what emotional feelings or regret might layer on it. This is why we always need to reflect well and be sure of whatever document or decision we tend to agree on or make.
I hhev watched several videos of this scene, where the surugate mother claims she is the mother and then the biological mother then claims she is the owner, sorry go on and on, if I was to talk based on reality, it is the mother that gave birth to the baby that is the real mother regardless of whatever happened, because she is the one carrying the weight and if she refuses the baby might cease to exist.
The pain of carrying the baby for nine months, is really extreme, I have watched mothers giving birth, and trust me it wasn't easy even some fathers fainted watching these experiences, some videos are online to date. I feel for women in these situations and this is one of the reasons I always respect women even though I have had bad experiences with them. Carrying a baby for a month to be born is not an easy thing to talk about for real.
I respect a surrogate mother but the truth is an agreement is an agreement regardless of whatever has happened, except that the owner wants to stop the agreement. We both decided at that moment that you would carry the baby for me till you give birth. We both signed a contract of different things so the mother doesn't have the right over the child depending on the contract. If she breaks it then she can face the law or state her reason.
Based on my own perspective, if I were to host a surrogate mother agreement contract there are some things I would state clearly in the contract,
- You won't have access to he child forever or probably to a certain age.
- No stalking of the child if not you will be sued.
- You must not share this information with anyone else.
- You will be paid a one-time huge amount or probably monthly.
- If my wife agrees, make her visit the child onces In a while, depending but under some restrictions.
These are certain things I will state in the contract. And if it is breached I will also state it's against an agreement so there are rules regarding this disagreement of contract.
I am not against surrogacy it's a good approach as long as the two married people agree to it and also the surrogate mother agrees to it, but the only issue that may arise is if they break the agreement that is when there can be an issue with it or towards it. Just follow up the contract rules and agreement then there is no issue attached to it. We are in a more advanced world and this should not be a bad thing.
This is my entry to Hive learners' weekly prompt week 194 episode 3.
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