Its true of the fact when people say ghosting is a bad thing believe me it is a really bad to thing to do but there are sometimes we have to be greedy with our feeling in other to gain full focus and not be left behind in this world.
I had to ghost my Ex not because it for levels reasons but I noticed all my attention and mind was on her and my mistakes and trust me it wasn't funny back then because I couldn't sleep or even when I wake up it was hard for me to concentrate which prompted me to take ghosting as an option. The truth is when you ghost a lady she tend to get curious because you dont chase her and starts to wonder what he is really doing but after a long run she will lose feelings and never come back that's the stage I am in now, i ghosted her till she lost feeling for me and no longer even check my page or say hi once in a while. This is why I said it's a bad thing to so but sometimes we have to make that hard decisions for our sake.
Till date I still struggle to gain my sanity back around women even after ghosting but I know presently now the feeling is better than before and I know with time a lady will tend to love me and shower me with so much joy and happiness.
I have never ghosted anyone except for me, naturally I am a guy that does not really worry about anything or anyone disturbing because I beleive everything is all Gods plan so I leave everything for God to take charge, but destiny will keep on making us experience this part of life even though we tend to run away from it countless time. I avoid people because I am naturally non chalfant over things around me. It's TRUE of the fact that life does not always give you what you want instead you have to fight your way through to get what you really want.
If I was to advice anyone, I wouldn't tell them to ghost for too long, although they can give it a try to see whether that person really loves them or not but when it gets too long she start to lose complete Intrest in the feeling and you will also lose intrest in the feeling too.
If I was to advice anybody about ghosting I will say if you really want the person back and dont want to be forgotten completely that we should dont let the ghosting take too long because this can make the person change mind towards you or anyone. Ghosting is cool it helps prove if the person really loves you but dont stay too long in the game. I will just suggest we shoudl be real with ourselfs and follow our minds.
This is my entry to Hivelearners weekly prompt, week 184 episode 1.