I have been a victim of cyberbullying and physical bullying and trust me neither is actually good and I can never wish for this experience with anyone that I know. Basically to be bullied is worse because online always has those long-time memories of the past we tend to have forgotten. Nothing online is hidden forever, so even though we grow up and the physical person has forgotten and gotten old, the online will still bring it up for us all to see, and trust me, the feelings by then will be different, but experiences like that are very unforgettable.
Physical bullying can be minimized especially when the person moves to a new location hurt cyber bullying cannot be stopped, to be cyberbullying doesn't stop it is forever. These are experiences that make because they have unforgettable emotional feelings. I could say something physical today and after a while everything gets dead or forgotten after apologies but looking at online harassment or bantas, it's very hard for things like this to be forgotten. I remember i did a birthday celebration at beach and trust me, it didnt end the way i wanted it to end because someone later drowned that day and hus body was discovered that third day, after this day i started getting harrased, bullied and insulted online that i killed the guy that i drugged the drinks of people which i dont normally do to kill the guy, I felt really sad during this season it was then i understood that real friends and bad friends existed and they are all not the same, real friends stood by my side and the bad fried denied everything just to prove they where not there. Apart from this experience so far I can't recollect experiencing anything, Till today, I still feel this experience like it was yesterday and it has been so sad for me to witness. I thank God the parent did not want to investigate further, if not we would have been in trouble especially false accusation, nigeria police system is the worst, they just need someone to fill in the space of their suspicion just for their promotion.
Since then, I have had this non care attitude towards making friends and hw people feel, this really traumatized me and funny how everything is online even though i move to new locatiosn i still see some videos and comments of pewople circulating that i had to delete all the post on my page then so i domnt keep on remeber ing about the past tjings thAT HAS happened s=ans so i can move forward it was really a tough decision to make.
Cyber and online harassment or bullying doesn't end but online harassment does especially when you move to a new location or place. I don't pray to experience either because online destroys reputations and physical ends physical sometimes within a set of people knowing.
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