Life can be so beautiful when you have people that will make you feel comfortable. I have met so many good people and bad people too, but then I've met so many more good people than I have bad ones. I just believe the people that treated you poorly are meant to teach you a lesson. I personally believe that strangers do more good to you than the people you are so close to, especially your family.
I don't believe in families anymore, except my parents and siblings, but you see all these other families are something else entirely.That reminds me of a time when I got admission to the university; well, I once wrote a post about it.
I met a stranger who happens to be someone I helped to repair her phone, and of course she loves my work. We became friends all of a sudden, and she asked about me and my whereabouts; she realized I don't really have a place to sleep. And to my surprise, she got me a place to sleep; this place was equipped with everything a man needed in the room.
I thought she was joking, not until I got inside. After that she keeps giving me money every week; her husband also took care of me, giving me money and food. I mean, who gives you food and a house at the same time and also gives you money when you need it? Even your family members cannot do that.After staying with her for some time, she gave me a shop to stay in and also gave me enough money to buy goods in the shop she gave me. It was a memory I can not forget;
I kept telling her she had a place in my heart even after I left her side.Another thing I will not forget is after my university, I met another woman who was absolutely a stranger to me; this was even funnier. It was just a stone's throw from where I was staying. I left home that day to go to another shop just to tell the person I met in the shop that I'm an engineer and I repair phones. The next thing this woman will say is, Where is your shop? I told her I couldn't afford one, and she said, Okay, I should come and stay with her in her shop so we can share it together.
I was amazed by her gesture and her kindness. I stayed with her for almost a year selling goods. She treated me so nice, and I appreciated it not until I left for my service in the year 2023.And at the same time, I've had family members that treated me so poorly, I went for my teaching practice in the year 2016, and since my father junior brother is living in that place, I do go and visit her, i only need to spend three months in the school, anytime I visited them her wife always treated me so poorly, it was so disheartening that I asked myself what if I will be staying with them for years.Family members most times can act so poorly for themselves; more reasons I don't even like going to any family members; I like strangers because strangers are always good people to me. Apart from my parents and my siblings, I hardly associate with other family members.