It’s a part of human nature to get angry as is happiness. Each day, we come into contact with so many people for different reasons and it’s a possibility that someone might do something to trigger you in one way or the other. We all have our different traits and emotions which are all valid. No one emotions are invalid because that’s part of what makes us human. We have different kinds of people with millions of diverse traits and experiences. When it comes to anger, we have those people who seem to be always angry due to a thing or two. Then we have those who never seem to get angry but when they do, it’s game over. Wherever you fall in these categories, I believe you know yourself best and should be able to manage yourself in any situation whatsoever.
Personally, I’d say I’m not someone who is quick to anger. I’m generally a happy and bubbly person. This is probably because I make sure to surround myself with positive people. I run a very strict program in this s peaceful life of mine and I believe highly in the quote that says do unto others what you want others to do unto you and I live by it every blessed day. I’m not one to speak badly to people so I don’t expect others to do that to me. Once you try something messy , I know to pull myself away. Anger to me is an emotion that messes beautiful things and someone who is quick to anger is in a way never happy in life so I prefer to overlook every other thing and be happy.
This doesn’t mean I don’t get angry. The funny part of all this is, I believe I’m very quick to anger regardless of the fact that I hardly get angry. To get me angry, you’d have to be someone very close to me who knows me in and out or someone I love. These are the only two category of people I believe can get me angry very easy. For example, my mother and I are like cat and dog when we spend just a week together. We love each other so dearly but there’s always that one thing we will fight over at least once a week. I get that it’s part of human nature to quarrel or get mad over setting things but I try my best to avoid all these occurrences because when someone I love does some which gets me mad enough to get a reaction out of me, I feel so disappointed in myself because I believe myself to someone with a high level of self control.
Given the fact that I barely get angry, once someone manages to make me angry at any time of the day, it eventually ruins my whole day because I don’t like to show such emotions. I find getting angry and reacting to stuff very overwhelming sometimes and this is the main reason why I try my best to avoid drama and things that would get a reaction out of me at any cost. Anger isn’t a good emotion to me and so I try my best to avoid it. After all, I’m too old to be hypertensive.
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