Hello everyone,
Happy weekend to all of us and let me not forget to wish everyone here especially those of us who are tired of adulting a happy children's day. It's indeed a great day for everyone as today marks a day we celebrate our children in a special way and as such, it has been declared a public holiday so that they can enjoy themselves at home. I could remember when my mum used to buy presents for me on every children's day 🥰🥰, it really a good day for everyone. Make sure you spend quality time with your kids or siblings and make today special for them because it is their day.
I will be talking about bulling today, what I think about it and how we can eradicate it if possible
Most of us here knows that bulling is the use of force or the act of intimidating someone thereby making the person feel less of himself. Anyone can be bullied, it can either be an adult which is being bullied or the children, it just depends on the situation the victim finds himself. I have heard so many cases about bulling especially those ones in school. I could remember a story I read few months back about a young boy who died due to bully. According to the story, his senior in school had been threatening him to join their gang but he never wanted to, the night his senior came to beat him up was when he collapse. He was quickly rushed to the hospital and after some time he regained consciousness, no one knew what he had been through not until he told his parents on the sick bed before giving up the ghost ☹️☹️
After reading this boys story, I was very shocked but there was nothing for me to do. The annoying part was that the person behind the boys death wasn't punished for his crime, this means that he can actually go ahead to bully other kids. Some people said that most of those who fall victim are the less privileged, those who their parents are not wealthy but I totally disagree with them in this one. Anyone can be a victim irrespective of your status, this boy was from a wealthy home but yet he was a victim.
I was almost bullied by my senior in school but I refused to be among. I was told to sweep the senior class, I told the senior that I'm not the cleaner and as such I won't do it. He shouted at me and threatened to punish me if I refuse to do what I was told, I quickly ran to report him to one of my teachers and he called him to order and told him never to disturb me again. That was how I overcame that senior.
Bullying is a very bad act, imagine someone forcefully take what's yours or threatening to kill you or maybe teasing you, this can be so annoying and in most cases, it will make the victim to have a low self-esteem and most of them ends up commiting suicide just to end everything.
Possible Ways Bullying Can Be Eradicated
I know it can't be completely eradicated but I know for sure it can be reduced to the minimum in such a way that our children can now go to school without being afraid.
parents should watch out for their kids, if by any chance they find out that their kids are no longer behaving the way they should, they have the right to ask questions, I'm sure they will open up to their parents.
there should be a law that anyone one who is found guilty of bully should be punished or better still expelled from school.
Parents shouldn't encourage their children into bully. Most parents know how far their children can go and they end up covering for their children. They should know that their child have to face the law anytime they commit a crime.