I want to believe most of my friends here already know who I am but for the sake of this edition and those who will be reading this part of me for the first time, let me tell you some things to know about me and the uniqueness in me that makes me stand out because one thing I believe is that every human being is different and that makes us special in diverse ways. God did a great job to our creation and I never dispute the fact that we are wonderfully and fearfully made from above.
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I am Busayo Christianah Omoyiwola and I hail from Kwara State in the town of Owu Isin. A Yoruba lady who doesn't even know how to speak much of it 😬 I am the second born out of five children. I am 28 years old and by God's grace, I will be clocking a new year next month and a new year in 2023.
I am presently living in Ondo state as I am awaiting my clearance and am ready to serve my country. I hope to be posted in a good state especially in the East because I want to explore and meet different people aside from my geographical location.
I studied Early Childhood Education at the college of education in the year 2015 and I thought I wouldn't further after my mom's death but all thanks to my Big sis who sponsored me till I graduated this February with me going to be obtaining my Bachelor's degree in Education (B.Ed) certificate in Guidance and Counselling.
For the sake of the bachelor on this Blockchain, I am single and searching for my rib. If you help me or you are the one, kindly enrol in my ministry 😅😅 As you can see, I am a complete and independent lady who is striving hard not to depend on anyone except God who can never disappoint.
I have a lot of attributes that make me stand out and make me proud of who I am because one of them is my ability to stand up for myself and take responsibility. Before my mom died, she taught me to always stand and fight for myself without depending on anyone.
I grew up to understand that life isn't about relying on anyone even if you are in a relationship because I was trained to work for whatever I want and to value myself more than anything else. This is why I am striving hard, and committed to what I do so that I would be able to live and survive.
I was arguing with a guy yesterday morning. Our landlady came around and demanded everyone to pay a full house rent by January even after adding to the initial payment. Of course, I will be leaving early next year and there is no way I would be paying a full house rent but she isn't ready to accept half payment or the number of months for me to pack my load.
So, we were talking and arguing that this woman was taking the step so those leaving soon won't abscond with her money. I argued with this guy for some minutes as he was making his point clear that I might also abscond with the money too which I was trying to explain that we are all different and I can't do that because I hate to take someone's stuff. I planned to pay for a few months till I relocate only if the landlady will agree.
I remembered the present Novel I am reading titled “How to win friends and influence people.” The author said the only way to avoid an argument is to avoid it. That was what I did yesterday by accepting what the guy was telling me because he was insisting I will also abscond with the money. After all, we are all human beings.
There is something about me and it is that I make sure to clear whatever is between someone and me even before leaving a particular place because this world is a small place just like the post I read from I don't want to ruin a relationship all because of my benefits and I try to settle whatsoever is binding me with someone to have a clear conscience at the end of it all and this would give me peace of mind.
I take responsibility for something I know is my duty to do and wouldn't cheat anyone because I understand and believe in the golden rule of life which is to do unto others what you will have them do to you. So, if anything might be a barrier for me in the future, I stay away from it and try my best to leave a good impact before I leave.
Some people see it as nothing but to me, it means a lot because I will always try to protect my reputation and never jeopardize it because of selfishness and greed.
Contentment is something I will never joke about and this is another thing that makes me stand out. I don't get oppressed by what people do to me because I believe he who doesn't have today will come to have in abundance tomorrow, and for this, I exercise a lot of patience in my life. I might not have what you have today but if it's something I crave, I will work for it and get it at the right time.
They say all that glitters isn't gold. So why would I hurry to get what isn't yet time to get? I will surely regret it later. So, I rather endure and be patient while I focus on the growth happening in my life. I am very simple to the extent that nothing freaks me out about life. I have always held onto the belief that nothing last forever and all material things are vanity upon vanity.
If I want something for myself and I know I need it, I work hard and by this, I will be happy that it was through my hard work and not something I got from someone. This is one reason I try to please myself and I am proud of who I am today.