Cutting off people directly, especially friends or those who haven’t really contributed an ounce of positivity in my life has never really been my thing since day one. I prefer outgrowing them than cutting them off directly…
I know these two different words might mean the same to most of you, but then to me, they are two different words with two different meanings. You cut off only those who have access to your life but contribute nothing positive to it, while you outgrow anyone or anything that you find unhealthy to your life, including those who have access and those who don’t….
Using myself as a case study right now. I have never directly or intentionally cut anyone off before from my life, even when i think of doing it, i still feel slow and a little hesitant to get it done. It’s better to get it done in the shadows than to get it over with in the limelight. And that’s when LIFE comes into the picture. Honestly, whenever i feel like cutting off those who haven’t really made any impact in my life, and i don’t know how to go about it, i just keep it in my mind and in my head for nature to take its course. Guess what happens guys? I don’t know how the universe does it or makes it happen, life just happens in a certain way and before you know it this particular person or people and i just end up finding ourselves in different parts of the world, which is mostly in a faraway place. A place where there can never be any form of coincidental meetup, not to talk more of constant communication…
This is how the universe has always helped me in cutting off un-impactful people from my life. The universe saves me the stress of having to do that myself, because it knows how much i try to avoid situations that are likely to lead to different level of questions, especially on why such decision was made…
Friends are important, no doubt. But then it’s only the wise, impactful and contributive ones that are needed to make life easier and worth living. The ones who add more to our burdens and also refuses to add any impact should just be left in the past, that way you’d be able to work with only those who align with your goals, mindset and values…
Friendship is not by force, it is by choice. You are not compelled to work and walk with those who have no impact in your life, you have the right to choose the person or group of persons you want to work and walk with, regardless of what they have to offer. Your life, your business, your choice. Choose how you want your life to be affected…
NEW YEAR, SAME ME AND MAYBE NOT THE SAME PEOPLE…
Honestly, I’m done with this new year, new me, new people bullshit. Lol, at this point in time I don’t even have any new year resolution for this year. I just want to survive this year like i did the last, and with it should come the resources to make it happen. If i can have this, then i’m good for the rest of the year…
This is a new year, and guess what friends? I don’t have anyone I want to cut off from my life. The people i want to cut off from my life has been cut off by life itself, not in terms of death but in terms of finding ourselves in different parts of the world where communication is just once in a blue moon…
I will definitely meet some different sets of people this year again, same as it happened last year. Last two years I didn’t have Oz, Patosh or Faidat in my life as friends, but then last year we found each other and became friends. This year, the same thing is bound to happen. Mingling with different sets of people is normal, especially if it means surviving and earning some good cash. At the end of the day, life is sweeter with funds…
In summary, I don’t need to change my network at all, and that’s because I have in my network only the big bag chasers, so i have no reason to change my network…
In conclusion, it’s still the same new year, same me, and maybe not the same people pattern, depending on the update that comes along the way…
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