There are many people who has a dream of becoming famous one day but if I talk about myself I don’t wish to be famous. Everyone might dream of fame because it will bring happiness in their life and get more successful, also gain love from everyone else. But for me fame is only a burden and I don't see it as a blessing. Because I don't believe in the illusion of it people don't know deep down this fame can take away something very important such as privacy and peace.
So, by any chance if I became famous today then I don’t think that I would take it as a good thing for me and my family. Fame is eventually going to bring attention and that will cause judgment. I won't like it if people starts talking a out me even if it's good or bad. Fame will take away my freedom because people constantly wants to know everything about your personal life. I would be afraid of doing any small thing because people would be waiting for my mistake and I know when it happens it will be a big deal. I would never want this kind of constant stressful situation. I don't want to be chased by people because of my fame.
Another reason I don't want to become famous is because I believe this fame can instantly a person and turn them into a complete different person. This fear of judgement about my image will always remain inside me. There are many celebrities they act differently just to please others like they seemed fake and I feel they have already lost their real selves. Some people become arrogant and some became lonely. You will never know if someone is suffering behind the camera as all of them talk about positivity on camera. Famous people also suffers from finding real friends, face jealousy and there will be plenty of rumors that can make their life more complicated. So yeah I really have no desire to live like that.
I just can't throw away my privacy to become famous. If I'm famous it will be hard to walk around outside freely or eat at a restaurant without being noticed. People are not going to respect my personal life and at some time it will become public. The people will constantly Judge me for my behaviour or my choices. They might judge my partner as well and not take it lightly. It would feel like living in a glass box as people are going to follow my every step. I value my freedom more than fame and I want to spend my life quietly with my family and friends who always have been there for me because they know the real me not because I'm famous.
Being famous is not easy and it adds a lot of responsibility on the shoulder of that famous person. After becoming famous I can't stop for a while and work to stay relevant otherwise people will forget me. Basically it's like a race which has no ending and I won't be able to handle the pressure as it would be really exhausting. I would love to live an ordinary life where I won't have any fear of making mistakes, can learn anything freely and there will be no one to judge me. Of course, fame has its good sides too but I would still decline it.
So, if somehow I become famous, I wouldn’t embrace it happily. After all being famous is not my dream.
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