Never Revenge Someone's badness, Repay with Goodness

We are at Week #61 Edition #01 and the current theme for the Hive Learners contest is about the Toxic Relationship. I would define Toxic relationship as the relation between some people which makes either one or both side suffered due to the bad behaviors by either one or both side. This relation is generally do not last long as the person who is suffered tends to avoid any talks or relation with someone who has bad habits.

Sometimes I had toxic relationship, most of them when I was at school because many students who are in the same class with me felt jealous to me as I often got very good mark in most of the subjects in the class. Some of students tried to bully me to make my mental health down. They are doing it many times and then it makes me think what should I do?

I was taught by my parents to never do any revenge to the person who have treat us badly. Instead, we have to treat them good, even sometimes it hurts. You know it feels like someone is trying to poison us, we take that poison and exchange the poison with milk. a healthy milk which is very good to them. After thinking for a while, I think what my parents taught to me was right.

Therefore, I always keep my mind that I have to do good to people who have hurt me. Whenever they bullied me, I always try to keep smile and silent, pretending that nothing happened or assuming that they are just kidding. When they stop bullying me, I approached them and ask them, "Hey friend, do you want to play football with me?" or an invitation for lunch or dinner. You know, something which can make good relationship between us. When I asked them, they hesitated at first, but finnaly accept my invitation after I asked them many times.

I still remember that things are going well as it's planned. we are doing well, Our relation is start getting better. my friends who always bullying me feels like regretting his bad habits and they start asking for apologize to me. Well, You know, that was one of the greatest moment I had when I was child. I think That was the first time I saw people change their behavior from bad to get. As soon as I saw they want to sake my hands, I take their hand quickly to shake their hand. I was smiling and we hug each other.

So the life lessons that we can learn from the toxic relation is, don't ever revenge people who have hurt us, Instead, we have to treat them good in order to make them realized that what they are doing is wrong. I think that basically all people are good, we just need to talk to them closely if something doesn't feel right.

Alright guys. That's what I can share to all of you about Toxic Relationship and how to make it better, I hope you like it. Thank you so much for reading the post. Feel free to leave your comments below if you have any opinion regarding this article, I would really appreciate that and .... have a great day :)