Hi everyone! Short tempered persons can't be happy and the don't let others remain happy too. The people whom they live and met for work regularly also suffer for short tempered persons.
There are some pwople who rarely got angry. Anger can destroy a relationship between two or more persons. Anger is not a good quality for a man. A man can get angry for many reasons. There are different reasons for anger. Different professions have different reasons for anger. There is no particular reason for short tempered. Elders can get angry with their younger for being disobeyed them. A teacher can get angry with their students for disrespecting them or not studying properly or making chaos in the classroom etc. A traffic police can get angry with the drivers for breaking the traffic law like drive in over speed or failed to show the necessary papers.
Children at their early age show their anger very often. As children have no sense of understanding which is better and which is worse for them they demand anything whatever they want. But their elders try to give the best things to their younger. Sometimes a child don’t like their parents choice and they got anger. My anger was also different in different ages and different situations. One day when I was in class nine during my registration period of my school a registration form was given to me to fillup and that was a practice form, not original copy. I myself tried to fillup that . I never filledup this type forms previous. So I did some wrong to fillup some informations. I show that to my mothers father (grandfather).He was a professor of Islamic history in National University of Bangladesh and was too sensitive to fillup any forms. Once I saw that he already showed his anger to my cousins for doing wrong in form but I forgot that and present my form to him. When he found some mistakes he started to angry with me. He told me a lot of angee speech with which no one told be before in my life. As his grandson he didn’t accept my fault at all. This made his anger more. When I told him that it was not the main form then he sudden stopped and told me why I didn’t tell him this before. He felt sorry for me but where his anger stooped, my anger started there. I was not too matured to adjust with his temper. For a long time I did not talk with him friendly. After three or four years I realised that I was doing wrong with my grandfather. Then I started to normal behaviour with him.
In my childhood I got anger quickly in any situations. If I choose something to buy but my parents didn’t buy for me then I got anger. I was angry untill I got my expected things. I liked playing cars in my childhood most. Whenever I went out with my mom I looked for new playing cars to buy. Sometimes my mom didn’t buy the car for me then I started to cry on there. I think it is a duty to the parents that Sometimes they should reject their children to change their habit. I think if parents support their bad habits of anger it would be created a permanent problem in their characteristics.
Children would suffer in the long run for their short temper. In my childhood I didn’t accept others anger with me. That made me more angry. I think showing temper is not a good thing. One should follow the perspective why he would temper with someone.
We have to think before showing temper that if he or she deserve that, if deserve we should try to control our temper and that is humanity.