Have you for once had a friend who is both lovely and annoying, sometimes I do think if it is possible for a single person to have two opposing identity, one minute they are so clingy and the next you feel like biting their ears off.
I have had my share of such friends, they are so sweet you will think there no other good person on earth but by the time they came up with their hidden disturbing talent you would feel like crying. But like the adage that says " we can't throw the baby away with the bath water", we can't do away with them, after getting angry with them for a few minutes we erase their deeds for that time and await a new one from the.
“You are my password. People can unlock me through you.”
― [Anushka Bhartiya]
Somethings that naturally I don't take from people, my reactions without utterance would have make others have a rethink but this my special friend will only continue what she is doing.
I would recall an instance that she called me to get her a plate of jollof rice on my way back from work, I branched at an eatery bought her a plate with yogurt, on getting home instead of her to welcome me with a thank you, I had to face a panel of judges like a student facing a debate panels for couple of minutes, she told me she want party rice, is party rice cooked in a different way from Eatery rice, when I couldn't stand her talk I had to go out and stroll around my area, thanks to God I came by a naming ceremony,I took a sit like I know them and when it's time for Item 7 (food), I told the lady to help me pack mine in a takeaway. If you see the way she ate that rice you will think it was prepared with honey.
It is a funny senerio that sometimes I would want to yell and rant at her for behaving childishly but at the same time i had to retract and smile so as not to act harsh or mean.
With time I have come to understand that their once in a while irritative character is a sign of good relationship, it can't be all smile as we live together, those misunderstanding makes stronger together, even roses (rose flower) has a touch of torn.
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