The human approach towards each other is changing very rapidly, they are getting more mean and selfish. In todays time, people prioritize themselves before any other thing in life. I have seen people making use of others for their own sake and benefit. This is why I find myself quite different from others. I am born and brought up in a family which never taught us to be selfish in life. And might be the reason the world does not seems to be the place where I should belongs too.
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Currently, the situation at my cousin home is not good even though they are blessed with all the facilities and luxury of life, still they could not take out time for their ageing parent. The old lady is not feeling well since last few days, but nobody at their home have time for her. They all are busy in their own life and running after more and more money. I find it so strange, how the mankind could be cruel that they don't take out time for their ailing elder member of the family. They are not sort of any manpower at home, still the ailing lady suffering the pain. Being selfish is considered negative aspect of life because it prioritizes personal desires over the well being of others. I dont see any better example to highlight how the modern family is shifting their outlook towards life and family.
Selfishness in progress.
Being "selfish" encourages us to live according to our own values rather than following the crowd. When we take ownership of our happiness rather than relying on others, we feel less frustrated and more genuinely caring. After being in situation where people are turning up to me for their own purpose simply destroy the meaning of relationship. Be it fri3nds , relatives or neighbors. Everyone have their own selfish objective. But after being treated unfairly, I have tighten the lose ends and does not allow people to let make use of me. Selfishness towards family is not something that i have adopted in life Selfishness often means ignoring the needs of family members, leading to resentment and a breakdown of trust. It contributes to unhealthy environments characterized by greed, manipulation, and controlling behavior. Selfish actions can result in pain for loved ones and damage the emotional bonds that hold a family together. Which is why I never try to be selfish when it comes to family.
In good faith - Peace!!