Telling lies is not a good habit but in our lives, we often face some situations when it is necessary to hide the crucial truth which is a form of lie. But I am not interested in marking it as a lie but can be hiding something for a while just like the hide-and-seek game. Some people have some limitations and you should not tell them directly that can hurt them and that can bring only negativity with worse results. But if you make that person’s inherent quality in a louder approach by hiding the limitations that will help him to do better in his duty.
It is true that no one loves the person who repeatedly tells lies always but he never realizes the trouble for his lies to others. Sometimes we often do the same kind of thing by telling lies to our friends to family members in many situations unintentionally and without any thinking. Such as like for some simple situations like going to some places to start some work we seem to tell lies over the phone that we are on the way while we are still in our room or at home preparing to leave. These are actually not lies that we mean to be a lie with some serious issues.
We also often tell lies to our office staff about our work experience in interviews or inside the workplace to justify our off work works during office time. We don't meet up our equipment of the assigned work and often tell a lie to our boss with so many false excuses which can be serious sometimes and can harm our professional careers.
The crucial things about telling lies start with the deceptions, cheating in business, and frauds in service providers that cause so much trouble to people. I think that acts are like an ability or a bad quality of a person like cheating others through deception which has some critical issues in our society. If we continue in training to tell lies society will not become a better place to live.
I think that the politicians in our countries are the biggest liars and they always lie about everything about the country about the development ever their initiatives on anything they always try to hide many problems from the people of the country. So this type of Lie has no benefits and if the liars are always in higher percentage in the representation of a nation, the country will suffer a lot as these lies can only harm us in every way.
Even we can see some telling lies in the court that is very crucial for a people's life for getting accurate justice but many people do this for their greed of money; they get the money paid from the criminals and they deprive the justice seeker from the justice.
Besides all of this, there are some good lies for us which are like hiding some facts from someone to make the situation a better one. For example, a doctor tells some nice things to the patient to make the patient more happy, and many worse situations are not told directly but the doctor also tells the truth to the relatives because often the patient can get very depressed when he knows the real status of his health which can be not so good in the case of many diseases.
Hiding the real scenario is to make the patient be more positive about a disease that can improve the mental strength of the patient which is very necessary for some times. These lies from doctors have some good intentions and can not be considered lies while doctors discuss everything with the relatives of the patient, to tell the truth.
It is also pretty necessary for teachers to hide the weakness of a student to make him work hard and do better in his next exam to motivate the students. It will make the student stronger mentally and that will motivate him to work hard. It is more important for many people to hide their weaknesses it is very necessary to hide their weaknesses and express their strengths more loudly and that can help them to do better in their life in professional or in personal life.
I have some experience hiding the truth by not telling the result of an exam of my student his family member because if I told then the family members could tell him some bad words that would hurt my student so I had another plan to utilize the situation. I told my student that I would not hide this thing next time, I also told him ‘So you need to do better in your next exam’. As I hid the things, my student was very happy. And for the next exam, he worked very hard to better and it made his parents happy also.
In conclusion, we shouldn't practice lying or hiding what is necessary but we can do that in some cases when telling a lie is a demand of the situation for a better thing. We must focus on telling the truth always in every case is that it is the most important to our life. I hope you have understood what I want to express.
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