Hello everyone I hope you will be well and good.
Anger is natural and it is found in almost all the people. Anger is the reaction which occurs due to the actions which we don't like. It is the feeling which appears due to the things which hurt us. And in order to release our pain we become furious and we do things harshly in an angry mood.
Anger is sometimes good for us to control the situation and most of the times it destroys the things and make the things more complex and worst. So there are two cases in the anger in which one situation makes things better and in other situations the anger destroys the things and makes them worse and more complex.
Condition - I (Anger Making Things Good)
Yes you have read right that sometimes anger makes things good. It can control the situation in a good way. And sometimes anger is necessary for our corrections. Sometimes we do things in a good way due to some strict conditions and due to the fear of anger.
Let me give you a simple example in which anger works for our betterment and it is a daily life thing. We know that sometimes when we are not performing well then our parents or teachers show us anger and teach us in an angry way. And at that time we listen carefully and to make them happy do the work more properly. So here the anger is working for our wellness. At that time if our teachers and parents do not show anger then we will not get the things serious and we will become more dull.
Condition - II (Anger Making Things Worse)
It is also true that sometimes anger is destroying things and making them more complex and worse. Sometimes anger results in insulting behaviour. Sometimes it causes fights. Sometimes it hurts someone too deeply that is unbearable. Anger is the worst thing when it is going to destroy anything because once the things are destroyed then they become more complex.
So let me give an example to justify my statements. If a person is doing a good job but we do not like that person. And we start insulting that person with anger and hate except to appreciate. Then he will become rebellious and he will not afford his or her insult and will react badly. And it will result in complexities and further hate and anger. Because no one can bear anger and insult when he is at the right point.
Conclusion
So guys anger is not bad all the time it has advantages but when it is shown without any reason and just to hurt others and to show them least then it is considered as an insult and then it makes the situation crucial and then it cannot control the situation. So it may or may not be a tool to control the situation.