I talk too much but it is reduced
Talking too much is my weak point. Why do I say this? Well, I really enjoy chatting and having conversations. Through this habit, I have realized that I tend to talk more than necessary and sometimes it gets me into trouble.
Speaking up has given me a lot of knowledge. I've learnt more about other people and the environment thanks to it. Speaking frequently leads to the sharing of personal ideas and experiences. This may spark thought-provoking conversations and fresh perspectives. Occasionally, new information is imparted to you by people, broadening your understanding.
However, as I have grown older, I have started to see that talking too much is not always good. There are times when it is better to listen more and speak less. This realization has been an important part of my personal growth.
Over Talking might have several drawbacks. It could, for starters, irritate other individuals. Long talks and the desire to hear everything you have to say are not shared by everyone. For some, talks should be shorter and more targeted. Talking too much can prevent you from giving others an opportunity to speak. They may feel ignored or irrelevant as a result of this.
Another problem with talking too much is that you might say things you shouldn't. When you're always talking, it's easy to let slip something private or say something you later regret. You might also end up repeating yourself, which can bore others.
Talking too much can also mean you are not listening enough. When you are always speaking, you miss out on what others have to say. You might not hear important information or understand other people's points of view. This can lead to misunderstandings and missed opportunities to learn.
In some situations, talking too much can be seen as unprofessional. In work settings, for example, it is often important to be concise and to the point. If you talk too much in meetings or interviews, people might think you can't focus or don't respect others' time.
As I have grown older, I have learned to control my talkative nature better. This hasn't been easy, but it's been worth the effort. I have learned to pause and think before I speak. I ask myself if what I am about to say is necessary or helpful. If it is not, I try to keep it to myself.
I have also learned the value of listening. When you listen more, you learn more. You hear different perspectives and ideas. You understand people better. This has helped me in my relationships and in my work.
Listening more has also made me a better conversationalist. When I do speak, I can respond more thoughtfully to what others have said. My conversations are now more balanced and meaningful.
.My ability to interpret social signs has improved. When I speak, I see how other people respond. I can tell when it's time to wrap up or give the floor to someone else if they appear bored or preoccupied. This has assisted me in avoiding lingering too long in conversations.
Another skill I have developed is asking questions. Instead of always sharing my own thoughts, I ask others about their opinions and experiences. This not only helps me learn more, but it also makes others feel valued and heard.
I have also found that being quieter can make my words more impactful. When I speak less often, people tend to pay more attention when I do speak. They know that if I am saying something, it's probably important.
Learning to talk less has not meant losing my love for conversation. I still enjoy chatting and sharing ideas. But now, I try to make sure my contributions are meaningful and that I'm not dominating the conversation.
I've benefited much from this move in numerous ways. As a result of my enhanced listening skills, my relationships have improved. I've gained more knowledge because I'm receptive to the opinions of others. Additionally, I feel like I have more control over my speech and appearance.
I can see my growth when I look back. I've learnt a lot from my talkative temperament, but what's been even more helpful is learning how to balance it with listening. I'm still on this journey, constantly attempting to strike the ideal balance between talking and listening.
So while being talkative is still part of who I am, I have learned to use it more wisely. I now see the value in both talking and listening, and I try to do both in a way that's respectful and beneficial to everyone involved.
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