Love makes you feel wanted, it makes you feel valued and someone going out of the blues to protect you makes you feel secure when you're around them, there is this cozy and warmth feeling you feel when you cover your blanket in cold weather that's the exact you'd feel when being protected by a loved one.
There is this feeling of protection we have when it comes to our loved ones, we'd do everything in our power to help them, I know people who can do anything to protect the ones they love, I've heard a lot of people say they can take a bullet for the ones they love, but then it is the action that matters not the words. Then asking myself if I was one of those who could take a bullet for the ones I love well I can but it depends on where the bullet will hit me cause I would not like to die in the process that would be bad, and unwise of me.
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I see how the adults protect their younger ones by getting into a fight with others who are way bigger than them by size and height, now here is the taking bullet right, I've also witnessed how protecting someone has led the protector to be hospitalized, I'm not saying protecting the ones we love is bad but then we shouldn't engage in physical battles, well I'm saying out of experience though, don't ask me how it was cause I won't share that one with you.
Growing up I've always known my sister to be the type that doesn't know how to apologize even when she is wrong, there was a day I was walking with my sister when she stepped on someone's toe, the way the lady screamed I noticed it was painful, so I walked closer to my sister and whispered you stepped on someone's toe, her response was" and so what do you want me to do about it" at the moment I got pissed, there was this anger that boiled from my stomach to my voice causing my voice to become louder because my sister was older, I had to calm down to repeat the same question and she replied the same thing, then the lady heard it and stood in front of my sister obstructing her from walking away, all I needed was an apology from my sister cause she was wrong.
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I've known my sister for years that she doesn't know how to say sorry, in the process of telling my sister to say sorry the lady raised her hand and wanted to slap her then I held her hand in the air (like a superhero would) all I had to do was beg the lady but it seems my pleading wasn't producing any resourceful thing, cause looking at my sister she wasn't ready to say sorry and the lady in question wasn't even ready to let my sister go, and my sister has this mindset that she can fight with everyone.
I, on the other hand, was thinking of how to settle the whole drama going on and didn't want it to result in a fight cause I knew deep down inside of me that lady would beat the hell out of my sister and I don't want that to happen, cause looking at the lady's size and all my sister were in big trouble so I called my mum on the phone cause she would listen to her and she spoke to my sister and she was able to say sorry to the lady with a frowny face, well the facial expression doesn't matter, it's the words that preceded out of her mouth that mattered the most.
That was how I was able to protect my sister from receiving a hot slap and engaging in a physical fight even when she was wrong cause I know what a physical fight does to the body, you won't feel it till after the whole process when you're home and trying to relax you'd be having small pains that can generate something else. I don't like seeing the people I love in pain.
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