Hello Hivians
It has become the law of nature from the present to the past, from childhood to old age, in the past we were children, now we have children and become parents, the anxiety that our parents used to feel, we have felt, the wheel of the world continues to turn, we will be dragged unsteadily if we do not prepare ourselves mentally to face it all
All of us parents must have different ways to appear always active in protecting, nurturing and educating our children, never tired and never giving up for the sake of our children, in sailing the ship of household, of course we and our partners have different tasks and roles but have the same goal
However, what we parents do is right for the growth and development of the brain, mental and physical? I often see parents often forbid their children to play in nature and express themselves to know nature for certain reasons, for example parents do not like to see their children dirty because they are afraid of getting sick if they play in nature and are not allowed to play in the dirt because they are afraid of worms
On the other hand, I also often see some parents who are less open to their children and just let their children play anything so that there is no prohibition at all with the excuse that as long as they don't cry and disturb their mother's work, just let them be so that their parents can do their jobs properly
According to my assumption, both of the parental behaviors above are not quite right, I really understand that every parent has their own way to maintain, educate and teach their children, but I am only expressing my opinion even though I don't really understand this field and I am not an expert
I have one daughter but I educate her quite well in my opinion, sometimes I allow her to play in nature and learn about nature and be friends with nature because with that she will get to know more about nature I am sure that it will train her intelligence and also train her immunity and in nature she will get new things, from the results of the study children who often play in nature will have higher immunity than children who only do activities indoors
From this source of thought I allow my daughter to play with her friends in nature for a certain time in this case I also often limit her from doing things that can endanger her and have negative risks as a parent, I want the best for my child to teach her new things and let her express herself in nature but I don't want to get injured and sick from playing too much in nature
I give her the opportunity to choose what she likes in quotation marks I will supervise her and direct her into good things if it will have a negative risk then I will forbid her and limit it,
Sometimes in terms of educating I often give her examples of good deeds that I do rather than telling her or forbidding her because giving her examples will be more inspiring for her, children will imitate the behavior of their parents so in terms of giving a good example is the right choice to shape the character and behavior of the child
Shouting, or scolding for the mistakes he made! This is not good for them because by shouting at the child will become depressed and the pressure on the brain nerves will affect the IQ so that there will be two possibilities the child will be depressed and become stupid and the other will become stubborn and rebellious
Tell him gently about what he did was wrong and would have bad consequences I think the child will be very obedient and willing to obey it I always practice that in educating my child, all parents definitely want to always be there for their children, but for me training his independence is very important in dealing with problems so that he becomes more independent and more mentally prepared to face the world.
Thank you for everything
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yuliadi is a 36 year old nurse living in Indonesia, the #Hive blog is my only social diary the language used is Indonesian translated into English, my blog is my life.
