We often break promises, whether intentionally or not, but what is certain is that promises must be fulfilled. If we don't do it then it will be a sin and what's more, we will lose other people's trust in us due to frequently breaking promises, in fact in Islam it is strictly forbidden to break promises, I can feel how disappointed I am if someone breaks a promise to me.

If asked whether I have ever broken a promise I made to someone, the answer is definitely yes and I often break promises I make because I forget, actually this reason cannot be justified but what is wrong with forgetting cannot be controlled by a sane mind because forgetting occurs purely in the human mind which is caused by negligence or other thoughts that cover up a memory that is thought about so that a person will experience big losses due to forgetting and that is what I often experience.

The promise that I often break now is when I have received something trusted but I forgot to convey it but I have promised him, but apart from that there is a very big promise that I once broke and that promise I will continue to remember until the end of my life, when I was a teenager I once had a romantic relationship with a girl and we already loved each other, we had been in a romantic relationship for three years and I promised to marry her and our relationship would continue to the wedding, over time our love grew and blossomed we both were like two lovebirds who could not be separated anymore

But when I had to go to work out of town, when there were no Android phones let alone smart phones there were only public phones and Nokia if I felt homesick I could contact her via public phone and just listen to her voice day by day the longing got worse and the feeling of silence in my heart created an empty space that longed for affection, one day another girl came who was gentle and beautiful then I fell in love and she filled the emptiness in my heart so that without realizing it I had broken my promise of loyalty to a girl

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Now I realize that I have broken a promise and have hurt a girl's feelings, a third person made our relationship fall apart and finally we separated, how bad I was who was unable to maintain loyalty and was tempted by another girl which ended in a big fight, I was too slow to realize it all and was carried away in a love triangle story, I have hurt two hearts that I love this experience is really bitter and hopefully it will not happen again

There is no good reason for me to lie about the promises that have been said and regret comes after everything is gone now all that remains are memories and regrets, it took a long time for me to be able to rise again from that slump regret always haunts my mind, since then I promised myself I would never break a promise again and try my best not to promise and give hope to others I am afraid I can't fulfill it

For now I try my best not to break promises and try not to give hope to anyone so that they are not disappointed and if I am in two difficult choices then I will say insha Allah which means if Allah permits, because I have a nature that often forgets so they will not be hurt if I accidentally break a promise, so the conclusion is never to break promise, because besides hurting other people's feelings we have also sinned and the effect is that we will not be trusted anymore because we have been given the title of liar.

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yuliadi is a 36 year old nurse who lives in Indonesia, since knowing Hive now I am more active on blogs and writing original content every day, the language used in writing is Indonesian changed using Google translate, my blog is my life
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