Good evening guys, how are you doing? how was your day? Hope it wasn't too stressful, because you are indeed a special person indeed, so you need you really take care of your self okay?
So to the weekly Featured Contents, Week 11:- Edition 03:- hl-exclusive & hl-w11e3
Can I ever be bullied?
Well the question is, have I ever been bullied, I'm still thinking about that question because at some point of my life, it seems like I was the little bully lol
As we know, bullies are people that seems to threaten the weaker people on intentionally, physically or emotionally, to oppress them, or something else, just to feel them selves, for show off...
Well, I wasn't really bullied, but I remember one particular day that some things stupid happened, Drink a cup of water as we go on a break...
Welcome back! So where did we even stop sef? Yo I remember now so let's continue...
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There was a day when I was going home from my Junior secondary school with my friends and then, there was this guy that was In front of us, and then, I think he was kinda walking like a zombie, you know, like someone that was hungry, the guy was a student also but from another school, although I know the guy and we had differences at that time, even though he was obviously older than me.
And then, one of my friends with me said loudly while laughing...
See how he's walking ðŸ¤
And then, the guy came to me directly and said, Who are you taking to?
I was still laughing when he came and grabbed me, and I said jokingly... I wasn't the person that said anything, that is her, go and face her if you have mind, (still laughing) it was a girl and she was huge, like really huge, she was my junior but was bigger than me, so that was why I said what I said...
The guy got really mad at me and tried falling me down, but he didn't know I was stubborn and tougher than he thought, I didn't fall, instead I fell the bug guys down and warned him seriously, he turned and threatened to beat me up, it was my friends that made a scene and then he warned me before he left, but to me it was just like an empty barrel making noise, so I let him go with an adult laugh 😂
I was actually scared I would beat him up if we fought one on one, even though he is older than me, I was in really less concerned about that, because I was really ready to use our wrestling styles, *(my daddy buys wrestling and then me and my siblings practice at home, even though they said *we should not this at homes, at schools or anywhere, I was just ready for him...
So how do we try to reduce or even eliminate this?
Respect: if there is the right and enough respect between seniors and juniors, I think it will reduce and they should make it reciprocate.
minding your business: when you do the things that concerns you only, even when someone looks fit your trouble, you try to ignore and focus on what seems more important on you, you play with we whom you want to play with and avoid whom you want to avoid...
Standards: place your standards, do not let anyone make you fine below your placed standard or value, make it clear to everyone that knows you...
And so on... But at least, these ones could do somethings, thanks for your time, a loved by
