I think they say to hear is human but to forgive is to divine. We humans are the most fascinating creations, I mean, when you see a lion, you'll automatically be scared, when you see a scorpion, you'll automatically be afraid, when you see a wild animal, you just know that you have to be more careful with anything you'll do with them...
Now, when you see a domestic animal or even tha common insects, we are not so much afraid of them because we know we have dominion over all of them...
Now, this brings me to where I started from, we humans are so different, I mean the most fascinating and most complicated creation, we can never know exactly what a human has in mind. We can still predict an animal base on how wild or domestic the animal is, but let's talk about humans...
When we look at their faces, we tend to judge the book by its cover, but then, what the content within is saying might be totally different from what you'll be seeing in the face. Come to think of it, Shouldn't this be the major reason why we say that popular phrase: DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER
Now let me talk from experience, I have seen people that naturally that are also calm, they are so gentle, that even when they speak in the midst of people, they all keep quiet to listen to you, because that want to believe that the most reserved people are usually very intelligent.
There is someone that I have known for a very long time now, someone that when you look at him, he's so fine, I mean so so fine that any girl could look at him at first glance and have a crush on him straight, and not just that he's fine, he now has a whole lot of swag and interestingly cool dresses sense, and in addition to that, he is now a very smart guy that he knows quite a right from when he was young.
To see that this young guy actually grew up and changed his personality, but he was still looking young and fine, he started to fraud people around him, even to his family and friends, but still didn't do the official fraudulent act which we fully know as the yahoo boy...
Where I am going to is that there were times where he was caught severally, and he'd apologize with all the whole power in his heart and face.
You that is trying to threaten or even mercilessly treat him, you will just have compassion on him, because the really looks like someone that can't do what you accused him of.
And again after you have left him, he will commit another one, probably different from the location that he did again, he has been given a while lot if second chances, but he misuses them most of the time, he has even been put to rehabilitation services, and after all the I'm sorry excuses he gives, he still goes back...
And now, I see him, he really has not done anything of recent, he looks innocent.
But this thing he was doing has spoilt his reputation, has spoilt his brand, has spoilt everything he has of himself. This is one of the major disadvantage. Like I said, even rehabilitation cannot be a 100% trust worthy.
When an act has now gotten to the stage of addiction, there's literally almost no one that can make this person change their mind, they have to be so so intentional about it before anything changes, that's what I believe.
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