The hate I get THIG vs The hate I give THIG. This is one of the things I really want to prevent, I really don't want to hate no one in this life neither do I want anyone to hate me, I mean even the Holy book said be at peace with all men if possible, but yeah, the real question remains, is it possible?
Is it possible to be at peace with all men? Well, I'll say you can be with peace with a lot of people but it might not be the same way for you, I mean you might be offended but still choose not to get pissed at the situation, you might decide keep cool and choose peace in handling things than violence.
We both know one truth, which is that it is almost impossible to always be cool, I mean there will be a time or a situation that will make you feel fed up with everything and then you will want to react to them.
But yeah most times keeping your cool is almost entirely worth it.
But On the other hand the hate you sometimes or even most times give is usually dependent on the hate you get, you could naturally just be the chill guy, but then the hate you get will stimulate the reactions you give back.
But just like I said earlier, most times, it's just more chill to not always react to everything that comes your way, every hate that comes your way I mean.
It could mean a lot of things, it could mean that you're noticed even more than you realize, I mean you are more special or dangerous than you think, it means there's something about you that they find interesting that they just can't comprehend, so keeping a chill at them and still being successful at the end will only you feel superior.
What will be the difference between you and a child if you always take legal actions against those who commit acts of hate against you?
I mean a child will always say how much they'll report to their parent when they know you are against them, but growth will tell you that some of these things are not worth your time and stress, just do what you have to and leave the rest to God to do His Will, cause the more you nurse it in your mind is the more hatred you'll feel and will even cause more danger to yourself than the person or people that had done you bad.
People will always do things to spoil or stop your joy when they have a problem with it, even if you don't have a problem with it, I mean, even to your most meaningless and harmless comment to some statements or even some questions that to you, they are harmless and probably just for clarifications could be the most annoying thing to them, so
Most times, the hate you get is usually more than the hate you give, well at least for me.
You know, as many that has built a reputation probably online or offline or in their communities or their churches or maybe their working place, it might be really hard not to want to defend yourself because the more silence you keep the more doubt others get to feel about you, because if the hate you are getting is so much without no response, it's either that the accusations towards you are true and you can't face the crowd or the open space; we know you gonna hide and shy away from questions or interactions that might lead to the things that lead to the hate you are receiving.
Or you just do not have the interest to be involved into such mess to really tarnish your reputation, because you wan bro believe that they are not worth your time or response, but at this point, who are those that will believe you? So even at this point, it's quite dangerous.
As for me, just like everyone else as I believe, there'll be a time you'll not be able to take somethings, there'll be a time to say enough is enough, there's no reason why you are all against me and now it feels like I'm powerless.
I can't really say this is the time that I'll put an action or react to the hate I get, but I just know that there'll be a time when I'll not be able to take the insults any more and then there'll be a reaction.
The reaction might be so bad that I might even regret, that's why the chill way is what I'll like to take, but sometimes, what's the fun in keeping chill, a little bit of violence and tips the situation, if you agree with me shout YEAH!!! 😅
So most times the hate I give is not to be compared to the gate I give. I'm a chill guy tho 😌
Another thing I'll advice is to have someone you can talk to, someone that can make you chill, someone that can calm your nerves, it could be your siblings, it could be your parents, it could be your coolest friend, but most importantly it could be your babe.
These set of people in your life is so important, because they'll help you to manage life itself, they'll make you see reasons why you should react to that situations and also make you see reasons why you should ignore.
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