Good evening, all members of the Life-n-thoughts community, good evening to you all.
It's my first time writing in this community in October, and I'm glad to share my thoughts with you on what I titled Do not dwell in the past but focus on the future.
This is one thing that can make a man remain stagnant and confused in life. Your past experiences kept hurting you because you kept recalling them.
And each time you do that, you end up stirring up the anger in you. There are certain experiences you had in the past that each time you recall them, you feel like killing yourself.
I've been thinking about this because I've had a series of experiences in the past. I hold unto them, and they ended up making my life miserable.
So one day I sat on a stool, and I began to think about my life. I thought about so many things. You know the most important aspect of my thoughts?
I discovered that thinking about my life was the best decision I'd ever made. It helped me navigate my way out of those thoughts and experiences I had in the past.
So to me, letting go of the memories makes you see the better side of yourself. Let go of those memories see life in a different dimension.
I've always told those who stay around me to allow the past to remain in the past. Why bring in something that happened ten years ago to this present time, when you know you have a lot of things yet to be achieved?
Note: Bad memories hurt a lot and it would take time to heal if at all you would permit it to happen.
In conclusion, never dwell on the past, but in the future.