I'd forgotten about your husband's story, but now that you mention it I remember :) Thanks for the reminder. It's so interesting how we have similar stories. No polygamy in my background, but plenty of other dumb shit to mess with my head.

apparently its less fun to talk about when you lived it

Yes, true… but I also feel like the older I get, the easier it is to talk. I'm more okay with it now than I used to be.