Hello and a very good morning to everyone.
Sometimes acting out differently puts you against the odds. Then it even becomes difficult to communicate simply. Simple words also start to sound different and odd. I think many people face this kind of situation at different stages in life. It is a very common phenomenon that turns relationships unattended and distorted. It is a sad story that we do not have enough time to understand the other whom we claim to be a part of our existence. Communication gap is poison to bonds.
It is not fair to rule upon someone and try to manipulate the situation in our favor just to make them feel like culprits. There is no gain in a conversation if both parties are not willing to understand the other. It is not a fair conversation when one person outrules the other. Communication is hampered when such actions are repetitively taken, without noticing how harmful it is becoming for breathing.
Communication gap, not only makes life suffocating but also makes one feel disconnected from the rest of the world. It is not supposed to be a very common phenomenon, but I am afraid to claim that it is. Continuous loops of misconceptions and misperceptions, only make the situation worse.
Communication makes life easier, while it is the same reason to cause disstress in many situations. It is high time that people give it some notice. It is high time, a little reflection is needed to make our life better. Instant reaction without any basis is something that is not going to last for long. It is high time, that is to be recognized and to be put under consideration.
Interestingly, those of us who are educated, it is supposed to be easier for us to distinguish the difference and to be able to act accordingly. Be that as it may, we also fall under that group who create misunderstandings and try to manipulate the situation just to portray ourselves as the winners and dominate over others.
My stated causes may not be the only predictable occurances, other reasons may co-exist that I am unaware of and I am unable to write about it. It is quite annoying how we can have many reasons to support building communication gap while have quite a few reasons to promote constructive discussions.
It is painful how these little gaps can distroy bonds of many years long. I have seen so many situation, right in front of my eyes, and it is hard to digest even now. It is too toxic to keep on inhaling that same air. I am tired of it all! With patience it is possible to recover and realize but no one has that amount of patience. I, myself watch videos whenever I am free, but I am the same person who will not ignore and induldge in poor activities where we demean the person we care the most.
It feels TOO much when I see that communication has become a tool to dominate than a tool to be build connections. Maybe, right now I am too much into such topics due to my surroundings, but I have a feeling that this topic is quite a common one out there for all ages and time.
Thank you all. Please leave your comment below and you may share your POV. Have a good day.
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