My Opinion of Opinions
Everyone's got one.
Just like a rectum.
Some are more plausible than others.
Some are far out on the limb.
But what the hell, it's just an opinion.
And when you try to prove to someone yours is right—look out!
It's not always easy.
You are entering the treacherous landscape of slippery slopes.
Opening your trap might just expose your rational isn't all you think it is.
So proceed with caution.
Observe the road signs up ahead.
Drive carefully.
It's funny how we have a belief about something.
And if we dissect it we might not be able to prove it.
Yet we've got a gut level hunch we're right.
Is it important we all agree?
If it's a group effort—yes.
But if it's not, then, well as the saying goes—
“You're entitled to our own...”
Yep.
Doesn't mean we're right.
It just means that's what we believe.
So next time you get into a tussle with someone over a point or two.
Remember it's just an opinion—unless-
They were there and saw it first hand and you weren't.
Then you may want to concede.
Be reasonable.
Don't call them names for not agreeing.
Be civilized.
Say something like “Your opinion—noted.”
or “I'll take this into account.”
Also if you are getting really worked up about your opinion—
Then beware.
If you can't calmly explain it without getting upset at them for not agreeing—
then something's amiss.
It means you are trying to convince them to convince yourself.
Make sure you've done your homework first.
That you are truly convinced.
Ultimately it shouldn't matter whether you make someone
believe what you do.
After-all isn't conflict the engine of progress?
Welcome disagreement.
Let it temper your opinions.
So you don't lose yours.