Many times we can fall into the temptation to focus on everything that others do and we do not see how we are doing, it is possible to follow a good example of a person next to us, but it should not be something that becomes a constant action, I do not like to fix my attention on what other people do because in the end I get distracted and I do not do what I should do.
Our attention must be on the path that we are tracing and we know that we have to concentrate in order not to neglect our objective, many people live pending of what the people next to them do and so they waste a great part of their time, I like to do what I have planned to do and then I focus on the next task, life is an accumulation of activities that we do with the purpose of living quietly.
It is difficult to reach our own tranquility if we are pending of others, each one must focus on his life, in everything that will fill it, maybe sometimes we can look at others to see how to do it correctly, but not only to criticize, when we have children we constantly look at what they can achieve, that to support them and help where we can, without hindering in their things.
To them, we must sow the culture of doing and helping everyone we can and not to destroy others, we can not always do what others want, it is necessary to do what our reason dictates us to do, have our own criteria, when we see forgiveness more attentive to others than in themselves, be sure that no one sow in them the culture of doing what we are responsible for us to emerge in life, if someone wants to go the right way see their way and not that of others, so do not be one of those people who only focus on what others do.