Honestly, I been non commital about sharing because I be sharing my whole life. And so I been sharing with people I know aren't gon' find my story useful to them, I decide to make this post here on hive for a change.
I'm really tired of talking but I can't stop. How I came from a loving, defenseless , hurting, to I don't give a f**k, to I don't want love. And at this moment I feel strong cause nothing gets to me but what's funny is this there's always weakness in whatever form you take. TBH the defining factor with any state is growth and development. Life is in stages, some stages you get to choose while some others you have to go through cause you must.
The stages you choose you get yourself pumped for and so it's easy to go through, you could complete this with just a step but where there's always a issue is transition from comfort to hardcore and the hardcore process itself- trust me you're never prepared for hard core developments even when you're aware of them. you're never prepared for the pain and scenarios.
Deliberate development comes with pain but one that we already prepared our minds to accept. Deliberate growth comes with strain that we already prepare our minds to undergo.
The vision of certain goals you want to achieve make you undergo a process to reaching that goal.
The goals determine the process
Ask yourself this more often in life...
What must I be?
what do I want to be?
Either helps the way you respond to whatever you facing and makes you understand what you must learn from every situation.
you probably want both fused.
Thanks for paying attention to me, I just hope my words were positive.