Have you ever ask to apple tree to give you mango.. Do you said to moon why you don't give light like sun??
Don't compare your child with others child there is no comparison between sun and moon. They shine when its their time.
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When we compare our child with others child, we increase their anxiety and stress. And also develop jelousy in them..
They feel every one is better than they are.
"Comparison is theif of joy".
Stop comparing your child
Don't said Ali helps her mother but you don't, or he is good in studies why not you.
Instead ask him can you please help me, as i saw you keep your toys clean and place it on right place.
Use positive statements.
Be their role model
Actions speak louder then words
Develop positive behavior in your self, do healthy activities,, your child will follow you. Set examples for your child, show some positive behaviour.
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