The Attitude and Life of People Around us.
The misconception of the heart keeps them forming negative thoughts towards you. Been open and real comes with it's own pain because some people take advantage of who you are or what they know about you to treat you like trash. Painfully some of this kind of negative treatments comes from the people you hold dear to your heart.
I always tell people there is no special place to meet people we call friends, spouse, business associates, the only natural special place we meet people is within the biological family cycle which is predictable otherwise people meet under different circumstances even in the least places you expect. meeting people and making new friends and building good relationships is a wonderful experience, but unfortunately some only come around for what they can benefit, as soon as they get or don't get what they expect from you they find one excuse or the other to distance themselves from you or paint you a bad person. On the other hand some people easily misunderstand the actions and intentions of others and only want to be comfortable with what they feel about you thereby allowing their ego and pride to control their attitude towards you. As humans, we believe and view life in different ways which forms our understanding and behavior, and this is some times triggered by our upbringing, religious beliefs, level of exposure, association, advice from people and action of intentions. Unfortunately some people feel they are always right and you cannot correct or teach them anything about life and how to live with people.
But the fact still remains that no matter what you do or say it is hard to change the mind of those who don't like you or want you in their space. People make choices of who they want to be with or be around them, it is normal but it only hurts when you are not chosen to be the friend or business associate they want to mingle with, because you like and care about them but you are ignored and avoided. Life is a journey and on your way people display different types of character and it is advisable to manage them with wisdom and move ahead because twenty children can not play together for twenty years, but kill your selfish pride and treat people well even though they are not your type because the world is big in our eyes but it's a small place where you meet people in your past in the least places you expect and what defines that moment of reunion is how you lived with or treated that person in your past. Opportunities may be gained or lost. Let love lead.
Thank you for reading, see you in the next topic from my desk.