You can’t establish peace with someone who only wants conflicts.Certain people thrive on chaos and drama and when they can’t find it,they create it.Give yourself some respect and love and stop engaging.I remember Nikola Tesa once said that be alone-that is the secret of invention:be alone that is when ideas are born.
I reflected over a few things today that I would love to share.
****The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.
The smarter the person is, the faster he thinks, and the sloppier his handwriting is.
Women have twice as many pain receptors on their bodies than men, but they have a much higher pain tolerance.
If you can't stop your stream of thoughts at night, get up and write them down. This will set your mind at ease so you can sleep.
Doing things that scare you will make you happier.
Listening to high-frequency music makes you feel calm, relaxed, and happy.
Intelligent people tend to have less friends than the average person. The smarter the person is, the more selective they become.**
A few years ago,I was significantly hurt.I sat there holding a pen in my hand but interestingly that changed everything.I never used to be the kind of person who could speak confidently in front of people.In group discussions, I stayed quiet.Growing up,when emotions hit,I didn’t know how to explain what was going on inside my head. People around me thought I was fine but mentally, I was tired, confused and carrying things I never talked about.The only place I felt a little safe was with a pen and a blank page.
At first, writing was not some passion or talent. It was just something I did when my mind felt heavy.I would write random thoughts,half sentences and sometimes even messy words that made no sense.But slowly,Inoticed a change.Whenever I wrote, my chest felt lighter.Psychology explains this as an emotional release like when you express feelings instead of suppressing them,your brain relaxes. I didn’t know the term back then but I felt its effect.
Anyways,once after a really bad day,I wrote everything down on a page.My fears,my frustration,my self-doubt.When I read it again, something strange happened.That was when I learnt my first lesson that is writing doesn’t remove pain but it gives your mind control over it. This is how the brain organizes emotions by turning thoughts into words.
With time, writing became a habit. Not for likes,not for attention.To be honest,just for sanity. And then I started sharing some of my writing online just like this one.Hopefully,some of it is gonna be helpful.